I am just about to turn 30.
I never had any parents growing up and would like some advice on life from others who are older (50/60/70 etc)
Do you have any advice on life?Are you old? What would your advice on life be?
Bravo for asking! Most younger ppl have no idea of the resources walking quietly all around them.
My advice would overwhelmingly be this one thing: as it turns out, love is CENTRAL to us, to our happiness, to everything. Devote yourself to the finding, and care of, love. It is more important than everything else put together.Are you old? What would your advice on life be?
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I agree with ';all hat,'; and I would add this: try to keep learning and educating yourself, make NEW mistakes because you learned from the old ones, ask lots of good questions like the one you asked here and let love lead you instead of your fears. Report Abuse
I am 16 years old but I am not the typical type of teenager so that doesn't stop me from giving you advice on life. My advice would be for you to abstain from hedonistic pleasures and find something pure and natural to satisfy you. Maybe have faith in God and you will know what your true purpose of being in existence is. I am sorry that you didn't have any parents while growing up. The others have posted good advices for you so I don't have to say anymore. But just don't get influenced by the pleasures in today's society. Hang around with nature for it's purity.
1. Enjoy the perception that time is slow, that minutes sometimes seem like hours. It really does fly by as you get older.
2. Never take for granted that you can move every part of your body without stiffness and pain. Run and jump and bend those knees!
3. When you're young, feel blessed that you can look forward to things that will happen in 20 or 30 years. When you're older, celebrate all that you've done with your life. And, for Heaven's sake, don't skip over all the little things that are so easy to ignore. They're what fill up most of our time and give spice to our lives.
4. Say ';Hi'; and smile when you can. Give a kind word to the people you see all the time, like the folks at the grocery. These little things are what the others in your life will remember about you and love you for.
5. Appreciate your life every minute of every year, at every age. When you can no longer do what you did at 30, do something else. Being alive is a trip on the opportunity bus. Age tells you when to change gears;-)
6. Don't get bogged down in the things that don't matter. If you must ask ';Why was I born?';, then answer ';Because.....'; and realize that ';because'; is the only answer anyone can give. Each of our lives is important in ways that we'll never know. It's part of the mystery of life.
I wish I could advise people. I wish I could tell them how to be happy, successful, caring, forgiving, and content. But with all my knowledge, a blessed and charmed life, I have learned one thing. We would like others to learn from our mistakes, but we forget that the only way we learned was through our own. So my only advice; fear nothing and anything you want can be yours.
My advice is : Don't kill yourself with hard work, everything in moderation, and learn how to say no to yourself, and others. I'm in my seventies. I wish that I had asked that question when I was that age. Have a star
G Use the ';life+decryption+key'; as soon, and as much as you can. You can make a huge change in your future without agonizing efforts. I waited until I was 43 and lost a lot of useful time.
Your not that old.
Friday, January 8, 2010
I've never played soccer in my life, and I want to know how. Any advice on how I should start playing?
Get a ball and a large wall and just kick at it for a while to get the feel of the ball and positioning.
Juggel a lot to get ball control down
watch games as much as u can ud be surprised at what u could learn
get as much live playing time u can go to open gyms go to soccer camps play some pick up games with freinds do what ever you can to get playing time but most of all...PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICEI've never played soccer in my life, and I want to know how. Any advice on how I should start playing?
Here is a website that should help you: http://www.soccer-training-guide.com
EnjoyI've never played soccer in my life, and I want to know how. Any advice on how I should start playing?
watch soccer!! then play soccer with friends and then join a soccer team!!
buy a ball is a good start
Juggel a lot to get ball control down
watch games as much as u can ud be surprised at what u could learn
get as much live playing time u can go to open gyms go to soccer camps play some pick up games with freinds do what ever you can to get playing time but most of all...PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICEI've never played soccer in my life, and I want to know how. Any advice on how I should start playing?
Here is a website that should help you: http://www.soccer-training-guide.com
EnjoyI've never played soccer in my life, and I want to know how. Any advice on how I should start playing?
watch soccer!! then play soccer with friends and then join a soccer team!!
buy a ball is a good start
What advice do you give your kids to have a good life?
I have a 3 year old and I trying to get her excited about school. To me, having a good education and means to make a living are sooo important.
What do you tell your kids? Especially the teens.What advice do you give your kids to have a good life?
I raised two really smart sons so here is my advice.
Spend time with her and read to her every day. My youngest son learned to read when he was four. You can take her to the library and let her pick out books. Children who are interested in reading will be interested in learning.
I also baked with my kids (both are excellent cooks!). Baking is a reading and science lesson all in one. Start with a cake mix. Let her add the water and the eggs. Baking is chemistry, kids learn to follow directions, fractions. And you get cake to eat when you're done. How fun is that!
You are your child's cheerleader. When she shows an interest in something, let her pursue it. Let your daughter find something she loves to do and then get paid to do it. That is the definition of happiness.
It isn't necessary to have your child in lots of classes or sports. Children need time to daydream and have fun and be kids. So encourage, don't push. And lastly, enjoy your little one! She will be grown and gone in the blink of an eye.What advice do you give your kids to have a good life?
in this day and age it's so hard. I feel sorry for the teens these days they don't have a clue. they defy school they walk all over their teachers and parents. I don't know what's going to happen. I've tried to tell them not to depend on anyone be able to support yourself. do good in school save money before leaving home you can give them all the facts of life they're gonna do what they want. you gotta let them trial and error as much as it hurts. if your lucky your children will listen keep encouraging and let them know you love them and will be there for them show them the pros and cons of things life changes so much
What do you tell your kids? Especially the teens.What advice do you give your kids to have a good life?
I raised two really smart sons so here is my advice.
Spend time with her and read to her every day. My youngest son learned to read when he was four. You can take her to the library and let her pick out books. Children who are interested in reading will be interested in learning.
I also baked with my kids (both are excellent cooks!). Baking is a reading and science lesson all in one. Start with a cake mix. Let her add the water and the eggs. Baking is chemistry, kids learn to follow directions, fractions. And you get cake to eat when you're done. How fun is that!
You are your child's cheerleader. When she shows an interest in something, let her pursue it. Let your daughter find something she loves to do and then get paid to do it. That is the definition of happiness.
It isn't necessary to have your child in lots of classes or sports. Children need time to daydream and have fun and be kids. So encourage, don't push. And lastly, enjoy your little one! She will be grown and gone in the blink of an eye.What advice do you give your kids to have a good life?
in this day and age it's so hard. I feel sorry for the teens these days they don't have a clue. they defy school they walk all over their teachers and parents. I don't know what's going to happen. I've tried to tell them not to depend on anyone be able to support yourself. do good in school save money before leaving home you can give them all the facts of life they're gonna do what they want. you gotta let them trial and error as much as it hurts. if your lucky your children will listen keep encouraging and let them know you love them and will be there for them show them the pros and cons of things life changes so much
I need some Life Advice/Life Coaching? Much appreciated for your answers?
I'm 24 and I've been thinking a lot about moving or staying in my current location (Chicago area), making new friends, finding a passion. I NEED A CHANGE! Or I think I do. So I'm looking for people to share life lessons with me, past mistakes, past regrets, etc. Also, I'm wondering, in your opinion, if you're me, where would you be living and what would you be doing at my age. Where= any state, country, city. I like details. More details = best answer point. Thanks!I need some Life Advice/Life Coaching? Much appreciated for your answers?
finding your passion is the key. all else will follow.I need some Life Advice/Life Coaching? Much appreciated for your answers?
I'm 21, and I have no regrets in my life. I am happy with what I am doing, and where I am living. I think the most important thing in life is doing what you love. For me this was very easy. I have always loved animals, so I went to college to become a Licensed Veterinary Technician. Loving my job is important to me, and I feel like I am making a difference, in both animal's lives, and people's lives. I don't know what you do for a living, but I think it is important to be excited to go to work every day. I met my boyfriend in college, and we are now living together. We are just starting out, we are renting a small house in a very bad area (Detroit area). But that doesn't bother me, because we are saving money and working towards buying a house in a nicer area. I don't have a lot of friends, but I have a lot of family. My family is the most important thing to me, because they are ALWAYS there for me, and we all get along. I could never move too far away from my family, because I would be miserable if I couldn't see them often.
The most important things to me in life are finding your passion, and making it a reality, always having goals to work towards, and surrounding yourself with people you love, who can always make you happy.
Hi, HeloMoto
I'm 42 and also live in Chicagoland area. It's difficult for most to give you their best advice when they now little about you. So in light of that, details can only come from knowing specifics about you. Generally most will tell you to do what makes you happy. Not easy to do if your not sure exactly what will make you happy, and happy to what degree and for how long. Some will say that you should read certain books, go to church, go to bars, live a year in Europe on the road, etc, etc.
I found that in my live the simplest advice reaped the greatest gains in terms of happiness or contentment. So with out knowing much about you or being able to give you the details I'll leave you with this adage.
Ask life what you will and it will give it in return. Ask for penny and you will get a penny, ask for the world and it will give you the universe.
mr.mean777@yahoo.com
Move to Canada, become a Lobster fisherman.
TEXAS!!!---HOUSTON!!!
IT's BOOMING HERE!!!
OIL and GAS Industry!!!!
That MEANS MONEY!!!!
Wahoo!!!
What are you good at doing , favorite things to do?
If i could do my life over . I would have studied Law and pursued my dream of being a singer, also.
GOD BLESS
When I was young and single, I travelled. I lived in many different states and worked many different low-skill jobs and met many people of different backgrounds and cultures. When I was ready to truly settle down, I chose a rural community about 5 hours north of you. I love all the waterfalls!
finding your passion is the key. all else will follow.I need some Life Advice/Life Coaching? Much appreciated for your answers?
I'm 21, and I have no regrets in my life. I am happy with what I am doing, and where I am living. I think the most important thing in life is doing what you love. For me this was very easy. I have always loved animals, so I went to college to become a Licensed Veterinary Technician. Loving my job is important to me, and I feel like I am making a difference, in both animal's lives, and people's lives. I don't know what you do for a living, but I think it is important to be excited to go to work every day. I met my boyfriend in college, and we are now living together. We are just starting out, we are renting a small house in a very bad area (Detroit area). But that doesn't bother me, because we are saving money and working towards buying a house in a nicer area. I don't have a lot of friends, but I have a lot of family. My family is the most important thing to me, because they are ALWAYS there for me, and we all get along. I could never move too far away from my family, because I would be miserable if I couldn't see them often.
The most important things to me in life are finding your passion, and making it a reality, always having goals to work towards, and surrounding yourself with people you love, who can always make you happy.
Hi, HeloMoto
I'm 42 and also live in Chicagoland area. It's difficult for most to give you their best advice when they now little about you. So in light of that, details can only come from knowing specifics about you. Generally most will tell you to do what makes you happy. Not easy to do if your not sure exactly what will make you happy, and happy to what degree and for how long. Some will say that you should read certain books, go to church, go to bars, live a year in Europe on the road, etc, etc.
I found that in my live the simplest advice reaped the greatest gains in terms of happiness or contentment. So with out knowing much about you or being able to give you the details I'll leave you with this adage.
Ask life what you will and it will give it in return. Ask for penny and you will get a penny, ask for the world and it will give you the universe.
mr.mean777@yahoo.com
Move to Canada, become a Lobster fisherman.
TEXAS!!!---HOUSTON!!!
IT's BOOMING HERE!!!
OIL and GAS Industry!!!!
That MEANS MONEY!!!!
Wahoo!!!
What are you good at doing , favorite things to do?
If i could do my life over . I would have studied Law and pursued my dream of being a singer, also.
GOD BLESS
When I was young and single, I travelled. I lived in many different states and worked many different low-skill jobs and met many people of different backgrounds and cultures. When I was ready to truly settle down, I chose a rural community about 5 hours north of you. I love all the waterfalls!
How can you stay married for life? Do you have any advice on how to stay happily married?
Don't always insist that your way is the right way.
Be considerate of your partner's feelings.
If you are upset about something, talk about it but don't yell, scream or blame.
Be honest and be fair.
Say ';I Love you'; everyday even if it's not always easy.
Don't feel that you have to always be joined at the hip with your spouse - both of you should have your own interests and friends and be okay to spend time apart without jealousy.
Don't hold grudges.
Talk about all the big steps before they happen - like big purchases (house, car), big moves (changing jobs or homes, retirement) and big changes (having children) - even though you think you both want the same things, you will find that you have differences and if you work them out before a change, things will go much more smoothly.
The main thing is just the old golden rule - treat your spouse the way that you want to be treated.
Oh - and don't give up at the first sign of trouble. You have to work hard to have something worthwhile and that includes a long, happy marriage.How can you stay married for life? Do you have any advice on how to stay happily married?
coming from someone who has never been married i think to stay married for life, you have to remember that you are not always going to be ';happily Married';. Marriage is work, and that is why there are so many divorces these days, because no one is willing to work for the person they fell in love with. so just remember that when you do get married, you will have amazing times, and you will also have times where you really have to work to keep your marriage together.How can you stay married for life? Do you have any advice on how to stay happily married?
Staying happily married is a choice. For a marriage to last for life the couple must love each other, communicate and be considerate of each other. Also couples should seek counseling regardless of if they need it or not. Everyone brings baggage to their relationship rather it's small or big baggage. Counseling will help them deal with their partners mood swings. Keeping a healthy and happy marriage together takes hard work.
The fist thing is to choose wisely before you get married. You have to have the same basic value system, and you should have similar interests. With that said, marriage is about caring enough about the other person that you would literally be willing to die for that person. You can never let selfishness rule. If you really evaluate why people don't stay married, whether it's money, infidelity, or a host of other problems, most of them boil down to selfishness. You need to place your spouse's needs ahead of your own. That's not saying to don't do things for yourself, because you do need to take care of yourself and do things for yourself. Just don't do it at the expense of your spouse.
The other bit of advice, never go to sleep until a conflict is resolved. In 25+ years of marriage, my wife and I have never gone 'till the next morning without working things out. There have been some pretty late nights, but in the end we have always come to terms.
The best idea for marriage is just keep doing it... Don't let the bad things break you up. The problem with following this idea, is that someone (who you may be married to) might have other ideas. You may be all gung ho about not fighting about something, but they may want to fight about something...You may be gung ho about moving and they may not be gung ho about moving. It's hard to keep on mind for two different people unless one or the other does a lot of compromise.
My personal response is through healing yourself, so before even entering a relationship you are as wholly yourself as possible (this also implies maturity in age).
Through years of various forms of counseling and self-help books, one of the best resources I've found that contains simplified, practical, effective answers to your complex question are the writings by author Laura Schlessinger. The titles of her books are cheeky, but if you can get beyond them, they contain the jewels for a well-lived marriage.
Tera had a good point that I'd like to elaborate on. She said not to sweat the small stuff, and to ask yourself how important something really is. I'd like to add the thought process I use with this is ';How much is this REALLY going to matter a week from now, a month from now, a year from now, and 5 years from now?'; If the answer is ';not much'; to any of those options, then I try to let it go! It really helps things out.
Also, be sure to respect one another's feelings, and really LISTEN to one another.
Be affectionate, considerate, loving, and tender.
Go on dates with your spouse still on a regular basis.
Read the ';fight fair'; guidelines link I've posted - it works wonders if you follow it!http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single鈥?/a>
One thing my grandma told my mom and my mom told me was to not sweat the small stuff. Pick your battles. The little things like not replacing the empty toilet paper roll used to drive me nuts. Until my mom gave me the talk about not sweating the small stuff. Before you fight about something ask yourself is it really that major? Is it worth it? Oh and don't go to bed angry. Work it out, listen and communicate with your partner.
Do things together that make you laugh.
Hold hands.
Kiss each other several times a day.
Always say I love you.
Find common interest and do them together.
Participate in his interests.
Make sure he participates in your interests.
Never hold a grudge longer than a few days at most.
Be understanding.
Never let the sexual spark die.
Be adventurous together.
only been married 8 years so not sure if I'm qualified to answer but I'll tell you what I learned:
Focus on what you can do to make things better, not what your spouse does that bothers you.
Talk open and honestly about everything. Even things you think your spouse will get upset about.
Watch how you say things to your spouse (i tend to be sarcastic).
Keep the sex interesting.
Find time to spend alone with each other.
Touch,hug and kiss often.
And remember...marriage is hard work. Its not always easy.
Grow together as a couple or you will drift apart.
Change is inetible you have to change as a couple.
Both for the other not for yourself.
Remember you can't control your spose but it won't work unless both of you want it tobe
Try not to yell when you get mad. Don't get physical...keep a regular sexual pattern...try to keep your vacations planned together. Try to be consistent with each other and in front of the kids. Take Care
Read your bible and live the way Jesus Christ created us to be towards our husband/wife. It may not be easy but God will give you life if you live it according to him.
Honesty is not always the best policy.
Hope for a short life. Other than that there is no hope.
SEX, don't stop having it, and make SURE it's fun for both!rimmel
Be considerate of your partner's feelings.
If you are upset about something, talk about it but don't yell, scream or blame.
Be honest and be fair.
Say ';I Love you'; everyday even if it's not always easy.
Don't feel that you have to always be joined at the hip with your spouse - both of you should have your own interests and friends and be okay to spend time apart without jealousy.
Don't hold grudges.
Talk about all the big steps before they happen - like big purchases (house, car), big moves (changing jobs or homes, retirement) and big changes (having children) - even though you think you both want the same things, you will find that you have differences and if you work them out before a change, things will go much more smoothly.
The main thing is just the old golden rule - treat your spouse the way that you want to be treated.
Oh - and don't give up at the first sign of trouble. You have to work hard to have something worthwhile and that includes a long, happy marriage.How can you stay married for life? Do you have any advice on how to stay happily married?
coming from someone who has never been married i think to stay married for life, you have to remember that you are not always going to be ';happily Married';. Marriage is work, and that is why there are so many divorces these days, because no one is willing to work for the person they fell in love with. so just remember that when you do get married, you will have amazing times, and you will also have times where you really have to work to keep your marriage together.How can you stay married for life? Do you have any advice on how to stay happily married?
Staying happily married is a choice. For a marriage to last for life the couple must love each other, communicate and be considerate of each other. Also couples should seek counseling regardless of if they need it or not. Everyone brings baggage to their relationship rather it's small or big baggage. Counseling will help them deal with their partners mood swings. Keeping a healthy and happy marriage together takes hard work.
The fist thing is to choose wisely before you get married. You have to have the same basic value system, and you should have similar interests. With that said, marriage is about caring enough about the other person that you would literally be willing to die for that person. You can never let selfishness rule. If you really evaluate why people don't stay married, whether it's money, infidelity, or a host of other problems, most of them boil down to selfishness. You need to place your spouse's needs ahead of your own. That's not saying to don't do things for yourself, because you do need to take care of yourself and do things for yourself. Just don't do it at the expense of your spouse.
The other bit of advice, never go to sleep until a conflict is resolved. In 25+ years of marriage, my wife and I have never gone 'till the next morning without working things out. There have been some pretty late nights, but in the end we have always come to terms.
The best idea for marriage is just keep doing it... Don't let the bad things break you up. The problem with following this idea, is that someone (who you may be married to) might have other ideas. You may be all gung ho about not fighting about something, but they may want to fight about something...You may be gung ho about moving and they may not be gung ho about moving. It's hard to keep on mind for two different people unless one or the other does a lot of compromise.
My personal response is through healing yourself, so before even entering a relationship you are as wholly yourself as possible (this also implies maturity in age).
Through years of various forms of counseling and self-help books, one of the best resources I've found that contains simplified, practical, effective answers to your complex question are the writings by author Laura Schlessinger. The titles of her books are cheeky, but if you can get beyond them, they contain the jewels for a well-lived marriage.
Tera had a good point that I'd like to elaborate on. She said not to sweat the small stuff, and to ask yourself how important something really is. I'd like to add the thought process I use with this is ';How much is this REALLY going to matter a week from now, a month from now, a year from now, and 5 years from now?'; If the answer is ';not much'; to any of those options, then I try to let it go! It really helps things out.
Also, be sure to respect one another's feelings, and really LISTEN to one another.
Be affectionate, considerate, loving, and tender.
Go on dates with your spouse still on a regular basis.
Read the ';fight fair'; guidelines link I've posted - it works wonders if you follow it!http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/single鈥?/a>
One thing my grandma told my mom and my mom told me was to not sweat the small stuff. Pick your battles. The little things like not replacing the empty toilet paper roll used to drive me nuts. Until my mom gave me the talk about not sweating the small stuff. Before you fight about something ask yourself is it really that major? Is it worth it? Oh and don't go to bed angry. Work it out, listen and communicate with your partner.
Do things together that make you laugh.
Hold hands.
Kiss each other several times a day.
Always say I love you.
Find common interest and do them together.
Participate in his interests.
Make sure he participates in your interests.
Never hold a grudge longer than a few days at most.
Be understanding.
Never let the sexual spark die.
Be adventurous together.
only been married 8 years so not sure if I'm qualified to answer but I'll tell you what I learned:
Focus on what you can do to make things better, not what your spouse does that bothers you.
Talk open and honestly about everything. Even things you think your spouse will get upset about.
Watch how you say things to your spouse (i tend to be sarcastic).
Keep the sex interesting.
Find time to spend alone with each other.
Touch,hug and kiss often.
And remember...marriage is hard work. Its not always easy.
Grow together as a couple or you will drift apart.
Change is inetible you have to change as a couple.
Both for the other not for yourself.
Remember you can't control your spose but it won't work unless both of you want it tobe
Try not to yell when you get mad. Don't get physical...keep a regular sexual pattern...try to keep your vacations planned together. Try to be consistent with each other and in front of the kids. Take Care
Read your bible and live the way Jesus Christ created us to be towards our husband/wife. It may not be easy but God will give you life if you live it according to him.
Honesty is not always the best policy.
Hope for a short life. Other than that there is no hope.
SEX, don't stop having it, and make SURE it's fun for both!
Need advice about life, please no rude comments?
Okay so lately I've been so stressed out about life. I found out I am going to get held back in school, and I've practically lost all my friends and my family doesn't talk to me. I really don't know where to go from here, my life is kind of a failure now. Please give me tips on how I can get my life going in the right direction, and help me battle my depressionNeed advice about life, please no rude comments?
I think that your depression or your feeling bad was there way before this things began to happen to you. Can you identify what you were thinking and feeling before these things happened? What thoughts were making you feel like crap? Then try to ';objectively'; examine those thoughts for for sure there's something untrue about them or you would not be feeling like that. Some lie must have slipped through, unrecognized by you at the moment, like ';I'm not worthy'; or ';I've screwed up';, ';I'm unlovable';, ';I'm a bad person'; or a bunch of other possible ones.
When you get to feel better you'll just know what you want to do in your life, it will call you. Nothing terrible has happened. And it is natural that when you are feeling depressed everything seems like a dead-end struggle, but when you overcome that feeling it will not feel like that, you will feel fresh and enthusiastic and renewed by whatever you choose to do. Sometimes school feels like hell, specially if you are feeling depressed, but it will pass and better times will come. Promise.Need advice about life, please no rude comments?
So you are stressed out in life. First look at your life and first find out what is causing the stress. Is it something you can gain control over? You are going to be left back in school, and I would guess that you think that is a big disaster. It's not! It shows you have not measured up to your capacity. That is all it shows. Why haven't you measured up. Find out why and take measures to correct it. Put in the necessary time so that you do measure up. Get some private tutoring. You have to put in the work to get the credit. Sit down and give serious thought to where you want to go in life. Set some goals for yourself that are reasonably obtainable. Start with small goals, accomplish them and then go onto bigger goals, a step up at a time. Once you start creating and accomplishing your goals you will feel better about yourself. Depression will leave when you start taking a good look at yourself and take actions to correct what is causing you to fail. Remember no failure is a waste as long as you have learned from it. Then failure becomes a success.
I am with , I Pod...
we are your friends..
email me when ya get lonely or depressed.
I am here for ya.
I believe in my heart 99% of all people are lonely and depressed, your not alone.
School isn't easy especially if your depressed.
Kids are mean and its hard finding that right group to fit in...patience. Your still young.
You just need to want more for yourself.
Have you tried praying..?
here is a cute pic of my lil turtle.
Watch his back leggs.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29035692@N0鈥?/a>
my pond with 5 aquatic turtles
http://www.flickr.com/photos/29035692@N0鈥?/a>
Don't you worry, things ultimately fit into their places no matter how impossible they might seem...Don't forget you're a person of your own and no one can change that ! You are what you believe and you don't have to believe to what others say. Just keep your life under control as far as health is concerned, all other things will ultimately fix one way or another !
u will always be my friend
i am everybodys friend
dont worry,
u will always have at least one freind! (me)
I think that your depression or your feeling bad was there way before this things began to happen to you. Can you identify what you were thinking and feeling before these things happened? What thoughts were making you feel like crap? Then try to ';objectively'; examine those thoughts for for sure there's something untrue about them or you would not be feeling like that. Some lie must have slipped through, unrecognized by you at the moment, like ';I'm not worthy'; or ';I've screwed up';, ';I'm unlovable';, ';I'm a bad person'; or a bunch of other possible ones.
When you get to feel better you'll just know what you want to do in your life, it will call you. Nothing terrible has happened. And it is natural that when you are feeling depressed everything seems like a dead-end struggle, but when you overcome that feeling it will not feel like that, you will feel fresh and enthusiastic and renewed by whatever you choose to do. Sometimes school feels like hell, specially if you are feeling depressed, but it will pass and better times will come. Promise.Need advice about life, please no rude comments?
So you are stressed out in life. First look at your life and first find out what is causing the stress. Is it something you can gain control over? You are going to be left back in school, and I would guess that you think that is a big disaster. It's not! It shows you have not measured up to your capacity. That is all it shows. Why haven't you measured up. Find out why and take measures to correct it. Put in the necessary time so that you do measure up. Get some private tutoring. You have to put in the work to get the credit. Sit down and give serious thought to where you want to go in life. Set some goals for yourself that are reasonably obtainable. Start with small goals, accomplish them and then go onto bigger goals, a step up at a time. Once you start creating and accomplishing your goals you will feel better about yourself. Depression will leave when you start taking a good look at yourself and take actions to correct what is causing you to fail. Remember no failure is a waste as long as you have learned from it. Then failure becomes a success.
I am with , I Pod...
we are your friends..
email me when ya get lonely or depressed.
I am here for ya.
I believe in my heart 99% of all people are lonely and depressed, your not alone.
School isn't easy especially if your depressed.
Kids are mean and its hard finding that right group to fit in...patience. Your still young.
You just need to want more for yourself.
Have you tried praying..?
here is a cute pic of my lil turtle.
Watch his back leggs.
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my pond with 5 aquatic turtles
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Don't you worry, things ultimately fit into their places no matter how impossible they might seem...Don't forget you're a person of your own and no one can change that ! You are what you believe and you don't have to believe to what others say. Just keep your life under control as far as health is concerned, all other things will ultimately fix one way or another !
u will always be my friend
i am everybodys friend
dont worry,
u will always have at least one freind! (me)
What have you learned in life that you would submit to a book of advice from people of all ages?
ex: I have learned that although I will encounter negativity it is best not to focus my thoughts there and it is a serious matter which one I choose . 41 ... at the end put your age if you don't mind. ... it is not going in a book it is just for fun.What have you learned in life that you would submit to a book of advice from people of all ages?
that bad times can also make goo times and you will meet good people who feel the same way as youWhat have you learned in life that you would submit to a book of advice from people of all ages?
(So far) I have learned to trust those who show that they can be trusted apposed to somebody I favor socially. 12 years of age
Work like you don't need the money...you know--so that you can spend more time with the ones you love.
Listen more - speak less.
If its still moving, don't eat it.
';How to mess with your coworkers.';
Hitler was right
to try to understand a person before you condemn them.
Holding grudges does not help anyone. Let it go and move on, I guarantee you'll be happier.
never underestimat little ppl they'll beat u up!!!!!little sis!!!!14
that bad times can also make goo times and you will meet good people who feel the same way as youWhat have you learned in life that you would submit to a book of advice from people of all ages?
(So far) I have learned to trust those who show that they can be trusted apposed to somebody I favor socially. 12 years of age
Work like you don't need the money...you know--so that you can spend more time with the ones you love.
Listen more - speak less.
If its still moving, don't eat it.
';How to mess with your coworkers.';
Hitler was right
to try to understand a person before you condemn them.
Holding grudges does not help anyone. Let it go and move on, I guarantee you'll be happier.
never underestimat little ppl they'll beat u up!!!!!little sis!!!!14
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