Okay so lately I've been so stressed out about life. I found out I am going to get held back in school, and I've practically lost all my friends and my family doesn't talk to me. I really don't know where to go from here, my life is kind of a failure now. Please give me tips on how I can get my life going in the right direction, and help me battle my depressionNeed advice about life, please no rude comments?
I think that your depression or your feeling bad was there way before this things began to happen to you. Can you identify what you were thinking and feeling before these things happened? What thoughts were making you feel like crap? Then try to ';objectively'; examine those thoughts for for sure there's something untrue about them or you would not be feeling like that. Some lie must have slipped through, unrecognized by you at the moment, like ';I'm not worthy'; or ';I've screwed up';, ';I'm unlovable';, ';I'm a bad person'; or a bunch of other possible ones.
When you get to feel better you'll just know what you want to do in your life, it will call you. Nothing terrible has happened. And it is natural that when you are feeling depressed everything seems like a dead-end struggle, but when you overcome that feeling it will not feel like that, you will feel fresh and enthusiastic and renewed by whatever you choose to do. Sometimes school feels like hell, specially if you are feeling depressed, but it will pass and better times will come. Promise.Need advice about life, please no rude comments?
So you are stressed out in life. First look at your life and first find out what is causing the stress. Is it something you can gain control over? You are going to be left back in school, and I would guess that you think that is a big disaster. It's not! It shows you have not measured up to your capacity. That is all it shows. Why haven't you measured up. Find out why and take measures to correct it. Put in the necessary time so that you do measure up. Get some private tutoring. You have to put in the work to get the credit. Sit down and give serious thought to where you want to go in life. Set some goals for yourself that are reasonably obtainable. Start with small goals, accomplish them and then go onto bigger goals, a step up at a time. Once you start creating and accomplishing your goals you will feel better about yourself. Depression will leave when you start taking a good look at yourself and take actions to correct what is causing you to fail. Remember no failure is a waste as long as you have learned from it. Then failure becomes a success.
I am with , I Pod...
we are your friends..
email me when ya get lonely or depressed.
I am here for ya.
I believe in my heart 99% of all people are lonely and depressed, your not alone.
School isn't easy especially if your depressed.
Kids are mean and its hard finding that right group to fit in...patience. Your still young.
You just need to want more for yourself.
Have you tried praying..?
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Watch his back leggs.
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my pond with 5 aquatic turtles
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Don't you worry, things ultimately fit into their places no matter how impossible they might seem...Don't forget you're a person of your own and no one can change that ! You are what you believe and you don't have to believe to what others say. Just keep your life under control as far as health is concerned, all other things will ultimately fix one way or another !
u will always be my friend
i am everybodys friend
dont worry,
u will always have at least one freind! (me)
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