To help them to get a life so that they can have something better to do with their time than just see how much outrage they can cause on Yahoo! Answers.If you had 5 minutes, what advice would you give to the Yahoo! Answers trolls to help them get a social life?
Five minutes isn't enough time. Ten years may not be enough. Some people never grow up.If you had 5 minutes, what advice would you give to the Yahoo! Answers trolls to help them get a social life?
Lolz I so know what you mean. I'm not an answer addict like the 99% best answer people. It can get al little addicting sometimes, like trying to get to another level or something. I'd say shut off your computer and go outside. Their probably all fat!!!!! Lolz Jk!!!
I wouldn't say a thing.
I bet you half the peeps that are on here were whining for the past month because the regular trolls were not coming around.
So if you ask me they deserve them.
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i would say ';you gotta get laid'; , that helps everyone
I don't like talking to them, I certainly don't want to talk about them. That's my position and I'm standing by it.
Friday, April 30, 2010
I need some advice with my life?
I'm a 15 yr. old raised Christian and sometimes its hard being in school when almost everyone is not christian , I'm also a new student. I know that you can't be caught up in this world and with what people want. I've never had real friends to lean on. Does anyone have advice that can help cheer me up?I need some advice with my life?
I am not a Christian. However, I do care about people, and so I'm going to give you advice you can use, not this ';trust Jesus'; stuff (although I don't mind if you believe that's PART of what you should do).
GO to church more. Find some people there.
Although ';opposites attract'; in relationships, in friendships, most times you'll get along best with people you're just like.I need some advice with my life?
just be yourself. trust me, i know what you're going through. it can be hard sometimes to stay focused on who you are but in time, you will make friends with people who care about you as a christian. I'm a Christian too and my friends accepted me easily because I wasn't afraid of being different.
dont get caught up in religion and worrying if your doing something wrong or right relax and take it easy dont worry jesus will always be there with you along with god so
to cheer you up get a friend man
I am not a Christian. However, I do care about people, and so I'm going to give you advice you can use, not this ';trust Jesus'; stuff (although I don't mind if you believe that's PART of what you should do).
GO to church more. Find some people there.
Although ';opposites attract'; in relationships, in friendships, most times you'll get along best with people you're just like.I need some advice with my life?
just be yourself. trust me, i know what you're going through. it can be hard sometimes to stay focused on who you are but in time, you will make friends with people who care about you as a christian. I'm a Christian too and my friends accepted me easily because I wasn't afraid of being different.
dont get caught up in religion and worrying if your doing something wrong or right relax and take it easy dont worry jesus will always be there with you along with god so
to cheer you up get a friend man
What advice can you give to someone just starting out in life?
something that you regret.
don't let others make the same mistake
thank you for your time and wisdom.What advice can you give to someone just starting out in life?
1) Don't get into credit card debt. Credit is huge especially now. If you have debt pay it off asap. 2) If you have student loans, prioritize to pay them off, ie. sacrifice tax refunds, bonuses, etc. because if you don't the loan may still be with you for decades and when you have a mortgage, family and other bills this loan can become a major thorn on your side. 3) If you are a single woman, don't ever be desperate for a guy to marry you. There's a man somewhere that will love you and do anything for you. 4) Be a whole person before marriage, a man will never complete you, they will only complement you and be a companion in life. 5) Don't lose touch with good friends, it's easy to do when you're young and move around, but there will come a day when it's all been said and done, you'll probably be married with children and sometimes you hit a wall and really start missing old friends that you lost touch with and when you try to reconnect, it's like too much time went by and it's never the same again.What advice can you give to someone just starting out in life?
I've been around for awhile and I;ve been around some great wonderful people and unfortunately some not so good people who hurt me. I have not let what others done to me to retaliate I have not stooped to their level and I feel very good about myself for that.
Be a good person and it will come back to you.
My advice would be to be responsible, respectable %26amp; take time to smell the roses. Life goes pretty fast and you cannot turn back time, so enjoy life . good luck to youcartridge
don't let others make the same mistake
thank you for your time and wisdom.What advice can you give to someone just starting out in life?
1) Don't get into credit card debt. Credit is huge especially now. If you have debt pay it off asap. 2) If you have student loans, prioritize to pay them off, ie. sacrifice tax refunds, bonuses, etc. because if you don't the loan may still be with you for decades and when you have a mortgage, family and other bills this loan can become a major thorn on your side. 3) If you are a single woman, don't ever be desperate for a guy to marry you. There's a man somewhere that will love you and do anything for you. 4) Be a whole person before marriage, a man will never complete you, they will only complement you and be a companion in life. 5) Don't lose touch with good friends, it's easy to do when you're young and move around, but there will come a day when it's all been said and done, you'll probably be married with children and sometimes you hit a wall and really start missing old friends that you lost touch with and when you try to reconnect, it's like too much time went by and it's never the same again.What advice can you give to someone just starting out in life?
I've been around for awhile and I;ve been around some great wonderful people and unfortunately some not so good people who hurt me. I have not let what others done to me to retaliate I have not stooped to their level and I feel very good about myself for that.
Be a good person and it will come back to you.
My advice would be to be responsible, respectable %26amp; take time to smell the roses. Life goes pretty fast and you cannot turn back time, so enjoy life . good luck to you
What advice would you give someone who overeats to fill a void in their life?
my sister is always worried about her weight and is constantly pigging out or trying to lose weight. she is average weight but thinks she needs to be thinner. she always says she has what oprah had in the sense that they use food as their drug of choice. how can i help her?What advice would you give someone who overeats to fill a void in their life?
You cant stop her from eating as she will just eventually start eating more. You can never make somebody lose weight if they dont want to. You can rather try help her fill that void in her life and be there for her or you can suggest a few things to her. Many people eat when they are depressed. Maybe she should rather eat a lot of fruit and healthy snacks. There shouldnt be a problem with that.What advice would you give someone who overeats to fill a void in their life?
running is a better option than eating, plus you work out that frustration. and you should do it with her too(running)
Bullemia(pathological over eating) and Anorexia nervosa (patological under eating) are psycho somatic disorders not really helped by psychotherapy or counseling.The void can be filled only by loving spouses or family members or really good friends.
one thing ive learned is dont eat when u get mad,sad,or BORED!
Help her transition to choosing a different drug. Exercise can become habit-forming as well, but it's hard to make that first move and break old habits. Go with her and exercise together.
excercise with her just to make her feel better. just be like hey wanna go for a jog? or you guys can like do excersice vidios together. she'll feel more confident with herself and you'll feel better once she feels better.
hope that helps :)
What ever advice you give , don't stand too close when doing so. You could get eaten !!
Don't worry. I once was going through the same thing hon. When those times came, I would sit down and read a book or something. My sister always told me not to worry too. I would do activities with her and just spend time with her. Your sister will eventually realized that it was nothing to worry about after all.
Taking walks out in the park is a great outdoor option.
i lost a lot of weight a few years ago
first thing i did is i started working out. just to put on some muscle.
i also went back to school. that kept me busy.
then i took up boxing again which was both exercise, but also a social activity
but the important thing is i made a lot of small changes to my life. it's no sense dieting in front of the TV or computer or anywhere else you like to eat. need to find something you can do where you're not going to think of food.
if your sister is fat that it's hard for her to make friends or find a boyfriend, i'd recommend some other social activity. something at your church, maybe join a gym like 'curves' where there are other women that provide a support group.
you need to get her out of that rut of being depressed and stuffing your face, and replace that with a healthy lifestyle of social activities, where you have too many things to do in a day to be sitting and eating.
find someone to help. whether they are in a shelter or in a group home. their are a lot of people needing help. when your focus is someone Else's problems your problems become smaller or you take a serious look at yourself in a different view. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Take her to the Dr.and check the sugar level. She needs somebody to coach her, she must have lot of stress.She has a problem with her self confidence. She has to find something to do, so she can fill successful, and fill useful. She has to learn to love herself.She needs motivation, and buy books for her.
You cant stop her from eating as she will just eventually start eating more. You can never make somebody lose weight if they dont want to. You can rather try help her fill that void in her life and be there for her or you can suggest a few things to her. Many people eat when they are depressed. Maybe she should rather eat a lot of fruit and healthy snacks. There shouldnt be a problem with that.What advice would you give someone who overeats to fill a void in their life?
running is a better option than eating, plus you work out that frustration. and you should do it with her too(running)
Bullemia(pathological over eating) and Anorexia nervosa (patological under eating) are psycho somatic disorders not really helped by psychotherapy or counseling.The void can be filled only by loving spouses or family members or really good friends.
one thing ive learned is dont eat when u get mad,sad,or BORED!
Help her transition to choosing a different drug. Exercise can become habit-forming as well, but it's hard to make that first move and break old habits. Go with her and exercise together.
excercise with her just to make her feel better. just be like hey wanna go for a jog? or you guys can like do excersice vidios together. she'll feel more confident with herself and you'll feel better once she feels better.
hope that helps :)
What ever advice you give , don't stand too close when doing so. You could get eaten !!
Don't worry. I once was going through the same thing hon. When those times came, I would sit down and read a book or something. My sister always told me not to worry too. I would do activities with her and just spend time with her. Your sister will eventually realized that it was nothing to worry about after all.
Taking walks out in the park is a great outdoor option.
i lost a lot of weight a few years ago
first thing i did is i started working out. just to put on some muscle.
i also went back to school. that kept me busy.
then i took up boxing again which was both exercise, but also a social activity
but the important thing is i made a lot of small changes to my life. it's no sense dieting in front of the TV or computer or anywhere else you like to eat. need to find something you can do where you're not going to think of food.
if your sister is fat that it's hard for her to make friends or find a boyfriend, i'd recommend some other social activity. something at your church, maybe join a gym like 'curves' where there are other women that provide a support group.
you need to get her out of that rut of being depressed and stuffing your face, and replace that with a healthy lifestyle of social activities, where you have too many things to do in a day to be sitting and eating.
find someone to help. whether they are in a shelter or in a group home. their are a lot of people needing help. when your focus is someone Else's problems your problems become smaller or you take a serious look at yourself in a different view. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Take her to the Dr.and check the sugar level. She needs somebody to coach her, she must have lot of stress.She has a problem with her self confidence. She has to find something to do, so she can fill successful, and fill useful. She has to learn to love herself.She needs motivation, and buy books for her.
Advice for people who lack confidence and are afraid to accept responsibility and move forward in life?
Real advice and solutions please...Advice for people who lack confidence and are afraid to accept responsibility and move forward in life?
It's a lack of self esteem. You need to start to believe in yourself. You do that by setting goals, start small, as you accomplish these goals you realize you can achieve success and start taking on bigger challenges until nothing can stop you. Give yourself a chance or you will regret it your whole life. See you at the top.Advice for people who lack confidence and are afraid to accept responsibility and move forward in life?
Questions usually begin with what, why, when, where, who or how. Accept responsibility for a poorly worded question(if you can even call that a question) and I will move forward in life.
That's 2 different things.
Lack of confidence is about self-esteem; mostly when you compare yourself to others, then you see that he's got better on this and that, therefore I'm less on this and that. It's wrong to do so because, we are unique and can't compare with others. We all have qualities and flaws, as well as others.
Not accepting responsibilities is about the fear of the price to pay for the consequences of our actions. When we're mature, we take all responsibilities for all. i.e.: you steal something, get caught, go to jail or pay a fine. That's the responsibility. Like you get a parking ticket, don't pay it, the price increase, fine, debate in Court and loose anyway, take responsibility and just pay it in the first place.
Take care.
Accept the fact that life is like a party. Sometimes you are the host and do all the work to amuse people, sometimes your the party animal makes the most of the good time, sometimes you are the wallflower that just watches everyone else enjoy themselves and sometimes you are the damn party pinata.
sounds like me...
Think that no one is above you, Be cool. There is a responsibility for each persons in life, if every one think like this, no work can be done by any one.
It's a lack of self esteem. You need to start to believe in yourself. You do that by setting goals, start small, as you accomplish these goals you realize you can achieve success and start taking on bigger challenges until nothing can stop you. Give yourself a chance or you will regret it your whole life. See you at the top.Advice for people who lack confidence and are afraid to accept responsibility and move forward in life?
Questions usually begin with what, why, when, where, who or how. Accept responsibility for a poorly worded question(if you can even call that a question) and I will move forward in life.
That's 2 different things.
Lack of confidence is about self-esteem; mostly when you compare yourself to others, then you see that he's got better on this and that, therefore I'm less on this and that. It's wrong to do so because, we are unique and can't compare with others. We all have qualities and flaws, as well as others.
Not accepting responsibilities is about the fear of the price to pay for the consequences of our actions. When we're mature, we take all responsibilities for all. i.e.: you steal something, get caught, go to jail or pay a fine. That's the responsibility. Like you get a parking ticket, don't pay it, the price increase, fine, debate in Court and loose anyway, take responsibility and just pay it in the first place.
Take care.
Accept the fact that life is like a party. Sometimes you are the host and do all the work to amuse people, sometimes your the party animal makes the most of the good time, sometimes you are the wallflower that just watches everyone else enjoy themselves and sometimes you are the damn party pinata.
sounds like me...
Think that no one is above you, Be cool. There is a responsibility for each persons in life, if every one think like this, no work can be done by any one.
Give advice to child as to what is important in life?
what are the good advises to child in this life. so he or she grow up in good way.Give advice to child as to what is important in life?
Be loving, caring, trustworthy, honest, confident, happy. Love your friends and family.Give advice to child as to what is important in life?
The important things in life are your happiness, family, friends your health, and love
Be loving, caring, trustworthy, honest, confident, happy. Love your friends and family.Give advice to child as to what is important in life?
The important things in life are your happiness, family, friends your health, and love
I really do wanna play video games the rest of my life but need some advice for a good carreer to get
ok, I know it's everyone's dream to play video games for the rest of their life, but I have that dream too, I don't care if i never get married or am a billionare! I just wanna play games cause that's one of the only things I like to do!
I just wanna carreer that maybe I can work from home with and pays pretty well so i can afford living too lol
So, I'm a pretty smart guy, I get good grades. I could get into some pretty darn good colleges. I want to do something in computers. does anyone have any advice? This'll really help me this year decieding what colleges to apply to! Thanks guys!!I really do wanna play video games the rest of my life but need some advice for a good carreer to get
well one of my friends loves video games to...hes attending the university of devry in california...he wants to make video games...but i think that whole school is desgned for gamers and computers you should chekc out there internet page...i dont really know what it is...but im sure if you just type in devry.com it should pop up! :)I really do wanna play video games the rest of my life but need some advice for a good carreer to get
Become a video games tester with one of the games companies like EA Sports, etc.
That way you can do what you like, help make it a better experience for people all over the world and get paid for it too.
Heaps of online stuff that works, mostly just filling out a survey. very easy, thats why i like it. you can try..
http://deedeep.surveypro3.hop.clickbank.net
http://deedeep.legitonl.hop.clickbank.net
http://deedeep.surveysc.hop.clickbank.net
Engineer.
I just wanna carreer that maybe I can work from home with and pays pretty well so i can afford living too lol
So, I'm a pretty smart guy, I get good grades. I could get into some pretty darn good colleges. I want to do something in computers. does anyone have any advice? This'll really help me this year decieding what colleges to apply to! Thanks guys!!I really do wanna play video games the rest of my life but need some advice for a good carreer to get
well one of my friends loves video games to...hes attending the university of devry in california...he wants to make video games...but i think that whole school is desgned for gamers and computers you should chekc out there internet page...i dont really know what it is...but im sure if you just type in devry.com it should pop up! :)I really do wanna play video games the rest of my life but need some advice for a good carreer to get
Become a video games tester with one of the games companies like EA Sports, etc.
That way you can do what you like, help make it a better experience for people all over the world and get paid for it too.
Heaps of online stuff that works, mostly just filling out a survey. very easy, thats why i like it. you can try..
http://deedeep.surveypro3.hop.clickbank.net
http://deedeep.legitonl.hop.clickbank.net
http://deedeep.surveysc.hop.clickbank.net
Engineer.
Any advice on living life in the moment, staying in the present?
Not regrets about your past, and not letting your future stress you out? thx ;)Any advice on living life in the moment, staying in the present?
hey-i'm not really sure what advice will change your mind, but to let u know, i have the same problem. u are not alone. maybe its all about growing up or something. i dunno. alot of people tell me advce about living life to the fullest, but although they are right, i still cannot stop thinking that way.Any advice on living life in the moment, staying in the present?
if it was meant to be to live for tomorrow then we all would be equipped with crystal balls..... for this reason, live your life each day for today like it is the last day and you will come to savor life more fully
No one says it better than this guy...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WK3EkqkV鈥?/a>cartridge
hey-i'm not really sure what advice will change your mind, but to let u know, i have the same problem. u are not alone. maybe its all about growing up or something. i dunno. alot of people tell me advce about living life to the fullest, but although they are right, i still cannot stop thinking that way.Any advice on living life in the moment, staying in the present?
if it was meant to be to live for tomorrow then we all would be equipped with crystal balls..... for this reason, live your life each day for today like it is the last day and you will come to savor life more fully
No one says it better than this guy...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9WK3EkqkV鈥?/a>
If u can give a life advice to a 16 year old what would u say?
from past experiences what would u sayIf u can give a life advice to a 16 year old what would u say?
Study hard but also take time to enjoy your youth*If u can give a life advice to a 16 year old what would u say?
Well I am 2 yrs younger than u haha but oh well! Gonna try. I am going to say grab life by the horns. Take chances get involved with school and stuff. Go to the games and homecomings and proms. I was going to play fastpitch then I didn't now I kinda wish I would still want to play because I love the game and I miss it. even though that has nothing to do with it but...oh yeah and be nice to all kinds of people. Don't make fun of emo's or the scene kids or goth's or nerds or any other stupid high school sterotype. We are all the same.
I wish I had listened to my parents, that's what i would say.
ignore yer frens who tell u to be ';fun n spontaneous';.
u dont wanna go too fast on ANYTHING.
at still a young age,think through things you're about to do and decisions you're making.
Because even the littlest thing matters, you don't wanna regret it later.
Plan for college early! Don't have regrets and if you want to do something just go out and do it! If you really love someone you should tell them how you truly feel %26lt;3
Enjoy your youth, it flies by, before you know it you will be looking backing wishing you could go back to those good ol' days! Trust me! Enjoy and don't take these precious moments for granted!
stay in school so u don't have to work as hard as an adult....at least not at a low-paying job
Laugh, it keeps you from going insane!
Love your family and friends, treat others with the same respect you would give yourself, forgive the idots who are breathing your air, be honest and study hard, but while doing all that: HAVE FUN! 16 is too short a time not to enjoy it while you can.
Don't waste what you can only have once. I have not turned 16 yet, but I know what I want to do with my life. The average life span is now 65 years. So don't waste it.
Guard your virginity-- it is a ';gift'; for someone who deserves it.....
Respect yourself above others, you will learn later what I mean.....
Keep your grades up, so you can get into a good college....
Do volunteer work- you will learn so much that you can't learn in school.....
stay in school
Nothing, unless they ask.
Get a part-time job. You'll want the money in college.
finish high school than college. get your career started than look for your mate. these days you have to have an education to make it. plan for your future and keep your eyes on the prize.
Study hard but also take time to enjoy your youth*If u can give a life advice to a 16 year old what would u say?
Well I am 2 yrs younger than u haha but oh well! Gonna try. I am going to say grab life by the horns. Take chances get involved with school and stuff. Go to the games and homecomings and proms. I was going to play fastpitch then I didn't now I kinda wish I would still want to play because I love the game and I miss it. even though that has nothing to do with it but...oh yeah and be nice to all kinds of people. Don't make fun of emo's or the scene kids or goth's or nerds or any other stupid high school sterotype. We are all the same.
I wish I had listened to my parents, that's what i would say.
ignore yer frens who tell u to be ';fun n spontaneous';.
u dont wanna go too fast on ANYTHING.
at still a young age,think through things you're about to do and decisions you're making.
Because even the littlest thing matters, you don't wanna regret it later.
Plan for college early! Don't have regrets and if you want to do something just go out and do it! If you really love someone you should tell them how you truly feel %26lt;3
Enjoy your youth, it flies by, before you know it you will be looking backing wishing you could go back to those good ol' days! Trust me! Enjoy and don't take these precious moments for granted!
stay in school so u don't have to work as hard as an adult....at least not at a low-paying job
Laugh, it keeps you from going insane!
Love your family and friends, treat others with the same respect you would give yourself, forgive the idots who are breathing your air, be honest and study hard, but while doing all that: HAVE FUN! 16 is too short a time not to enjoy it while you can.
Don't waste what you can only have once. I have not turned 16 yet, but I know what I want to do with my life. The average life span is now 65 years. So don't waste it.
Guard your virginity-- it is a ';gift'; for someone who deserves it.....
Respect yourself above others, you will learn later what I mean.....
Keep your grades up, so you can get into a good college....
Do volunteer work- you will learn so much that you can't learn in school.....
stay in school
Nothing, unless they ask.
Get a part-time job. You'll want the money in college.
finish high school than college. get your career started than look for your mate. these days you have to have an education to make it. plan for your future and keep your eyes on the prize.
Please answer if you are religious and have good advice on life?
i am a 15 year old boy an i am having a little bit of trouble staying on the right path in life. im so caught up in girls an partying an sneaking out, but i hate being all caught up and i get sick to my stomach all the time an feel guilty for it all. i want to know if anyone has gone threw this before? an how can i get straitened out oh an i would really appreciate some bible verses that might help me out too, im a christian. thank youPlease answer if you are religious and have good advice on life?
Hold the phone, central!
';Religious'; people seldom have good advice on life. They're usually too busy following some religious rule and trying to be ';good enough for God'; to have anything relevant to say to anyone else.
On the other hand, ';spiritual'; people, of which I am one, usually have good life advice, so I'll take a stab at it for you.
It easy for someone to stand there and say, ';Well, just DON'T do that.'; But I know that it is not that easy to hear that.
Really, though, there is nothing that will keep anybody on the right path until they take what is in the Bible and move it into their hearts. Jesus said (Matthew 15,11) that ';what goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.'';
You can substitute the word ';clean'; for unclean, and it is the same thing. Because in your situation (like it was in mine, too), you can look and look and look in the Bible all you want, but all you are doing is putting something into yourself, and that something cannot make you either ';clean'; or ';unclean.';
On the other hand: Make the Bible your own, and not what some church or preacher (or anyone here on Y/A, for that matter) says that it should be, and then it will come out of you and make you ';clean,'; because then it will be a part of your heart and life - not just your head.
So my advice would be just continue to read the Bible and trust ONLY the Holy Spirit (again, not some church or preacher) to show you what it means FOR YOU. A verse or two will not cut it, because sooner or later, if you keep reading it, the Bible will become your own, and a part of your life.
And remember: Guilt is the devil's tool. If you feel guilty, know that it is SATAN working on you - not God. Biblically, being ';caught up in girls'; is ';sinful,'; but practically, that is the way it is. I know for myself that was the main reason that I even went to church as a teenager.
Just make a conscious effort to NOT do the things that result in the devil's ';guilt trip,'; and do not put yourself in a position where you may even be TEMPTED to sneak out and go to parties, or whatever.
When you feel tempted, pull out your Bible and read it. That's the BEST way to get ';straightened out.';
P.S. Oh, and concentrate on the NEW Testament. All the Old Testament is is history; most of it is dry reading, and except for a few of the real-life situations (such Abigail showing what a wife REALLY should be in 1 Samuel 25), you're not going to get any ';life advice'; from it.Please answer if you are religious and have good advice on life?
Speaking out of personal experience, during my teens I was partying and doing not so righteous things all the time. But even during my teenage years, I still felt like God was watching over me. I think I became ';religious'; when I turned 22 years. It wasn't until I went through all these blunders as a teenager that I came to realize that all these materialistic experiences were meaningless and had no true value. Only the worship of God alone, and striving to lead a righteous life holds a true value.
My advice, and i'm not advocating this, is I find it necessary to experience something bad in order to find the good. And each one of us will find the good at his/her own pace and own time.
Change who you hang out with. Learn to say no. Go to your guidance counselor for help. Since you are Christian, perhaps talk to a youth counselor or anybody you trust at your church or just someone you know that is religious. Changing these habits can take awhile and you might mess up on occasion. Remember you are human, If you fall you simply get up..shake it off...and get back on track.
You are just experiencing the things a normal kid your age experiences. Don't beat yourself up over it. Always remember that God loves you just the way you are and if you ask him, God will change you. Try to set your sights higher than the party scene. You are so much better than that. Try to get involved in other things like your youth group will have a lot of ideas that can be just as exciting. Keep your eyes on God.
its hard, speacilly being 15 and being surrounded by people who wont encourage you, so leave those so called ';friends'; and surround yourself with people that will encourage you...involve yourself more at church or your youth service and read more of the word...also pray and truly seek God...in Genesis 4:7 it says ..';sin is waiting at your door to grab you. It longs to have you. But you must rule over it.'; temptation is great and thats the devil trying to draw you away from God so be strong and trust on the Lord will all of your heart...for the bible says the victory is already yours =)
Well first if your doing thing,s you feel guilty about, you are guilty of sin and need to repent, start going to church and do thing,s with the young people ,if you stay in the path of God you will not sin.
all that I can tell you is if you play with sinners,you will sin.
cant really help you, not having expirienced the stuff you mentioned
just ignore the loser who posted to this first
oh and you could read ';every Young Man's Battle'; by Steve Arterburn and Fred Stoeker-it talks all about how to stay pure as a teenage boy when your growing up in a sex-saturated culture
its nice to see that you actually feel guilty about using girls
i think that these are some good websites to go to
http://www.godisloveloveisgod.com/
http://www.scripturemenu.com/BibleVerseL鈥?/a>
http://www.pocketpower.org/sharing/verse鈥?/a>
http://www.bible.org/page.php?page_id=39鈥?/a>
i hope these help you
omg ive gone through it all!! im 16 now lol, but yea anyways i was reallly bad next thing u know i snuck out one day and jesus saved me and that change my life forever, but when jesus did save me i still was acting bad but this time i start to feel bad and slowly turn away from things. everytime you fall(sin) get right back up because theres many people who fall and cant get back up. need anything im here for ya
You feel this way, Because you are a Christian and Your guide is telling you to STOP THIS NOW! Find a nice Christian Youth group, and join it.
GOD Bless YA,
Chicago Bob. (Imasinner)
Please pray for our Country and Our President (DAILY)
There is more Joy in JESUS in 24 hours, Than there is in the World in 365 Days. I have tried them both.(ME TO)
R.A. Torrey.
Call a local Baptist church and ask them where there is a good Christian 12-step addiction recover group. Instead of the partying, go to this group. They will help you get straightened out. Stick with it and don't quit the group til you are doing ok again.
Im a 16 year old girl. Im trying to stay on the right path too. So far its working. If you feel guilty then just stop. There are ways to have fun without doing bad things. And if your friends are true then they will understand.
You don't need 2 be religious 2 have a good advice, or 2 be a good person. U need 2 find a peace within yourself (maybe religion can help U with that) and decide what do U want and what is more important 4 U.
I recommend you speak with the youth pastor at your church. Try to get a bit more involved with the youth group at your church...choose friends wisely...make sure you have similar interests and goals.
If you're feeling bad about doing something, why continue to do it?
That's basically common sense.
I am going to try to be honest and not corny. The changes in your physiology will be helped with or without sex. Guilt is something that stops us in wrong actions BEFORE we do them. Morality costs nothing. No matter when it happens if a young girl, unmarried becomes pregnant it causes pain for someone, and maybe even a life. You do not need to take a vow of celibacy. The right girl will be there at just the right time. Then marriage, and sex, spontaneously with God's guidance. Be sure not to rush her or rush yourself. Obey your elders, but not at the cost of your own spiritual life and happiness. As far as Bible verses, there is one that says ';If you look at a girl and are having sex with her in your mind, then you are already committing adultery. This does not mean you cannot look, it means be careful of staring. But you cannot love her just by looking. You must talk, and she must be honest (you will know). Love is understanding, not manipulation.
what is bothering you is more likely to do with lieing to your parents and breaking that bond of trust, than anything really religious-
although i'm sure some of your religion also covers this.
i STRONGLY suggest you talk to your parents about wanting to go to these parties- obviously you do, and denying yourself is not the answer since when you turn 18 you will have the right and even more pent up desire to do so anyway.
i can't tell you how many ';sheltered'; kids got to college and ended up pissing away thier chance since they indulged too mcuh in what was ';the other side of the fence'; to them and they did not have the backbone to have fun (believe i had fun) and balance it with RESPONSIBILITY!
i would strongly talk to your parents about this and discuss it with them and let them know and earn thier respect AND TRUST.
one of the big things in my life growing up (and no i was not religious- i was and am an atheist now), was that even when in potentially problematic situations, i was trusted to act responsibly so i wouldnt' be bringing suzie rotten crotch home telling them she is pregnant or be in the hospital with my stomach pumped for alcohol poisoning or bieng treated for a drug overdose.
bottom line is to build that level of respect with your parents and lieing to them is no way to do it-
and its not just the lie- its the PERCEPTION, so even if they didn't out right catch you, if you have done things to arouse suspicion (you have you are only 15), then they will be more hesitant to trust you-
christianity or no, religion or no- and will then use religion, or thier role as your parents to outright control you, rather than teach you-
of course they could always just be bad overbearing parents and not trust you, but at least make the effort.
Find a friend - a group of friends - you can be honest with this about. A youth group, a pastor, a youth leader, some friends who aren't all about looking right and being popular but being ';real.';
You won't get exactly what you're looking for here, I'm afraid, because there's only so much total strangers can do for you.
I will say, there are a lot of simple answers you'll get you should take care to ignore. ';You have willpower, use it.'; ';Ignore your guilt.'; ';If you don't like it then just stop.'; That's not real life. Real life is complicated and messy and you do stuff you don't want to. You asked for a verse, here it is - Romans 7. A piece of it: ';I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do鈥攖his I keep on doing.'; A saint himself said that - a guy who'd traveled the world and been beat and hated for God's sake, and there he was, still screwing up. Don't listen to people who imply you're just missing some simple solution for lack of trying. We all know life isn't that easy.
So the short answer is, almost all American male teenagers have gone through what you're talking about, Christian or otherwise. Secondly, you are not going to change overnight and this will not be an easy change if you decide to stick with it. And thirdly, perhaps most importantly, you gotta find the people in your life who are going to love you even in the worst of your screw ups. So be willing to talk to them and listen to what they say. Another quote, from Jeremiah: ';I have plans to help you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'; God's right there, right now, with all the resources and people in the world to help you out. Start talking to them and thing's'll start rolling.
The fact that you feel bad about your actions is good. It is very difficult to be a teen, especially since so much of the media today is available to enable partying and sex and the rest of it.
Are your parents alive? Talk to your father. You need to channel your energy in another direction. Like a hobby or something you like to do or would like to do , like auto mechanics. You can learn anything if you put your mind to it.
You say that you are a Christian. You need to make up your mind who you want to serve, God or Satan. 1 Cor. 6:9 John 8:44 1 Cor. 15:33
Your young so you can make changes that will make you feel better. Manifest self control by changing your habits of sneaking out and having relations you might not be ready for now. Suppose someone gets pregnant? Just think of the long term consequences of your actions. You are only young once. The foundation that you build now will help you be a better adult and have a life free of guilt. Best wishes.
I wish there was a lot of time to write a detailed answer, or even better, to get a lot more info from you first and then answer...
BUT,
if you want change you will need to change these areas...
External changes
your crowd... that's right, you can't hang with them and do good. They will be your downfall every time. Proverbs 12:26 ';the righteous should choose his friends carefully, for the way of the wicked leads them astray';. Guard your heart form the foolish thinking that ';they are good people'; ';you just don't know them'; ';but they are my friends';. Your friends are bad friends and you are a bad friend to them too. You need to start fresh.
Your schedule... when you stop doing something bad you need to replace it with something good instead... go to a BIBLE teaching church, get involved with the program there, hang with people who are truly living the Christian life... Read the Bible, Jer 29:13 ';You will seek me and find me when you seek me with your whole heart';
Internal Changes
Your heart... you know what you have been doing is wrong. Repentance isn't just acknowledging it but coming to God and saying ';I give it up, I give me up, help me, save me, change me'; and being WILLING to follow through. He will enable you with the strength to do it, but the CHOICE to do it is yours.
This is the biggest issue... if you are repentant you will be willing to change your friends and your schedule. If not, you wont.
I am a youth pastor in SoCal, let me know if I can help.
Stay regular attendance in church.bring this question anonymously in bible study per say your friend for instance.';I have a friend who ...'; get a group discussion going.stay off booze wild girls give you a lot of problems you will regret latter .find a good christian girlfriend at church that will help you stay strong.type a girl who likes to sip soda with you under a shade tree and wants you for who you are Christian.
Pr 20:1 Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler; And whosoever erreth thereby is not wise.
Oh yes- like just go do what you want is good advice!!
Sex is good but oh yes- what fun you would have with a girl you may not even LIKE, have a baby with you and you will Pay and pay and pay thru the nose for that ';fun';. It's NOT all that worth it! Honest.
STD's? Lovely- oh hey by the way, beloved fiance- I just gave you herpes! Lovely wedding gift, right??? Or get AIDS- game over. Warts... YUCK you ever SEE pictures of genital warts??? Oh fun.
Ya right.
Partying is only fun ';for a season'; and yes, young people SHOULD be carefree and have fun- time enough for heavy responsibilities later on in life.
But some fun is crossing a line which can derail your future. Then ALL your good fun will be quite over, believe me.
There is good clean fun that will last a lifetime. Things like finding what fascinates you- your passions- and pursuing it. Be it geology, computers, volcanoes, weather, cars, mountain climbing, etc. The list is SO long- there's no end to it.
But sex and partying without a thought but for the moment can only bring you future sorrows. You will regret it.
Are you ready to be burdened down with a kid and girl with a ring in your nose right now? Are you ready to support yourself? Then you owe your parents some respect too, and stop the nonsense. That just shows your immaturity.
6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
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6:13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
6:14 And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power.
6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
6:17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
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20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
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4:1 From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?
4:2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
4:3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.
4:5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?
4:6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
4:8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.
4:10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
Im a 15 year old girl. You should have this little thing called will power. If you want to stop, you can. However, I advise you keep at it. You are only a teen once so live the teen life (that is, boozing, partying, sex etc)
Forget guilt and enjoy life. There is nothing shameful in sex.
Plus, if you plan to be Christian all of your life, you can repent when you're on your 30s and live as you want until then.
Hold the phone, central!
';Religious'; people seldom have good advice on life. They're usually too busy following some religious rule and trying to be ';good enough for God'; to have anything relevant to say to anyone else.
On the other hand, ';spiritual'; people, of which I am one, usually have good life advice, so I'll take a stab at it for you.
It easy for someone to stand there and say, ';Well, just DON'T do that.'; But I know that it is not that easy to hear that.
Really, though, there is nothing that will keep anybody on the right path until they take what is in the Bible and move it into their hearts. Jesus said (Matthew 15,11) that ';what goes into a man's mouth does not make him 'unclean,' but what comes out of his mouth, that is what makes him 'unclean.'';
You can substitute the word ';clean'; for unclean, and it is the same thing. Because in your situation (like it was in mine, too), you can look and look and look in the Bible all you want, but all you are doing is putting something into yourself, and that something cannot make you either ';clean'; or ';unclean.';
On the other hand: Make the Bible your own, and not what some church or preacher (or anyone here on Y/A, for that matter) says that it should be, and then it will come out of you and make you ';clean,'; because then it will be a part of your heart and life - not just your head.
So my advice would be just continue to read the Bible and trust ONLY the Holy Spirit (again, not some church or preacher) to show you what it means FOR YOU. A verse or two will not cut it, because sooner or later, if you keep reading it, the Bible will become your own, and a part of your life.
And remember: Guilt is the devil's tool. If you feel guilty, know that it is SATAN working on you - not God. Biblically, being ';caught up in girls'; is ';sinful,'; but practically, that is the way it is. I know for myself that was the main reason that I even went to church as a teenager.
Just make a conscious effort to NOT do the things that result in the devil's ';guilt trip,'; and do not put yourself in a position where you may even be TEMPTED to sneak out and go to parties, or whatever.
When you feel tempted, pull out your Bible and read it. That's the BEST way to get ';straightened out.';
P.S. Oh, and concentrate on the NEW Testament. All the Old Testament is is history; most of it is dry reading, and except for a few of the real-life situations (such Abigail showing what a wife REALLY should be in 1 Samuel 25), you're not going to get any ';life advice'; from it.Please answer if you are religious and have good advice on life?
Speaking out of personal experience, during my teens I was partying and doing not so righteous things all the time. But even during my teenage years, I still felt like God was watching over me. I think I became ';religious'; when I turned 22 years. It wasn't until I went through all these blunders as a teenager that I came to realize that all these materialistic experiences were meaningless and had no true value. Only the worship of God alone, and striving to lead a righteous life holds a true value.
My advice, and i'm not advocating this, is I find it necessary to experience something bad in order to find the good. And each one of us will find the good at his/her own pace and own time.
Change who you hang out with. Learn to say no. Go to your guidance counselor for help. Since you are Christian, perhaps talk to a youth counselor or anybody you trust at your church or just someone you know that is religious. Changing these habits can take awhile and you might mess up on occasion. Remember you are human, If you fall you simply get up..shake it off...and get back on track.
You are just experiencing the things a normal kid your age experiences. Don't beat yourself up over it. Always remember that God loves you just the way you are and if you ask him, God will change you. Try to set your sights higher than the party scene. You are so much better than that. Try to get involved in other things like your youth group will have a lot of ideas that can be just as exciting. Keep your eyes on God.
its hard, speacilly being 15 and being surrounded by people who wont encourage you, so leave those so called ';friends'; and surround yourself with people that will encourage you...involve yourself more at church or your youth service and read more of the word...also pray and truly seek God...in Genesis 4:7 it says ..';sin is waiting at your door to grab you. It longs to have you. But you must rule over it.'; temptation is great and thats the devil trying to draw you away from God so be strong and trust on the Lord will all of your heart...for the bible says the victory is already yours =)
Well first if your doing thing,s you feel guilty about, you are guilty of sin and need to repent, start going to church and do thing,s with the young people ,if you stay in the path of God you will not sin.
all that I can tell you is if you play with sinners,you will sin.
cant really help you, not having expirienced the stuff you mentioned
just ignore the loser who posted to this first
oh and you could read ';every Young Man's Battle'; by Steve Arterburn and Fred Stoeker-it talks all about how to stay pure as a teenage boy when your growing up in a sex-saturated culture
its nice to see that you actually feel guilty about using girls
i think that these are some good websites to go to
http://www.godisloveloveisgod.com/
http://www.scripturemenu.com/BibleVerseL鈥?/a>
http://www.pocketpower.org/sharing/verse鈥?/a>
http://www.bible.org/page.php?page_id=39鈥?/a>
i hope these help you
omg ive gone through it all!! im 16 now lol, but yea anyways i was reallly bad next thing u know i snuck out one day and jesus saved me and that change my life forever, but when jesus did save me i still was acting bad but this time i start to feel bad and slowly turn away from things. everytime you fall(sin) get right back up because theres many people who fall and cant get back up. need anything im here for ya
You feel this way, Because you are a Christian and Your guide is telling you to STOP THIS NOW! Find a nice Christian Youth group, and join it.
GOD Bless YA,
Chicago Bob. (Imasinner)
Please pray for our Country and Our President (DAILY)
There is more Joy in JESUS in 24 hours, Than there is in the World in 365 Days. I have tried them both.(ME TO)
R.A. Torrey.
Call a local Baptist church and ask them where there is a good Christian 12-step addiction recover group. Instead of the partying, go to this group. They will help you get straightened out. Stick with it and don't quit the group til you are doing ok again.
Im a 16 year old girl. Im trying to stay on the right path too. So far its working. If you feel guilty then just stop. There are ways to have fun without doing bad things. And if your friends are true then they will understand.
You don't need 2 be religious 2 have a good advice, or 2 be a good person. U need 2 find a peace within yourself (maybe religion can help U with that) and decide what do U want and what is more important 4 U.
I recommend you speak with the youth pastor at your church. Try to get a bit more involved with the youth group at your church...choose friends wisely...make sure you have similar interests and goals.
If you're feeling bad about doing something, why continue to do it?
That's basically common sense.
I am going to try to be honest and not corny. The changes in your physiology will be helped with or without sex. Guilt is something that stops us in wrong actions BEFORE we do them. Morality costs nothing. No matter when it happens if a young girl, unmarried becomes pregnant it causes pain for someone, and maybe even a life. You do not need to take a vow of celibacy. The right girl will be there at just the right time. Then marriage, and sex, spontaneously with God's guidance. Be sure not to rush her or rush yourself. Obey your elders, but not at the cost of your own spiritual life and happiness. As far as Bible verses, there is one that says ';If you look at a girl and are having sex with her in your mind, then you are already committing adultery. This does not mean you cannot look, it means be careful of staring. But you cannot love her just by looking. You must talk, and she must be honest (you will know). Love is understanding, not manipulation.
what is bothering you is more likely to do with lieing to your parents and breaking that bond of trust, than anything really religious-
although i'm sure some of your religion also covers this.
i STRONGLY suggest you talk to your parents about wanting to go to these parties- obviously you do, and denying yourself is not the answer since when you turn 18 you will have the right and even more pent up desire to do so anyway.
i can't tell you how many ';sheltered'; kids got to college and ended up pissing away thier chance since they indulged too mcuh in what was ';the other side of the fence'; to them and they did not have the backbone to have fun (believe i had fun) and balance it with RESPONSIBILITY!
i would strongly talk to your parents about this and discuss it with them and let them know and earn thier respect AND TRUST.
one of the big things in my life growing up (and no i was not religious- i was and am an atheist now), was that even when in potentially problematic situations, i was trusted to act responsibly so i wouldnt' be bringing suzie rotten crotch home telling them she is pregnant or be in the hospital with my stomach pumped for alcohol poisoning or bieng treated for a drug overdose.
bottom line is to build that level of respect with your parents and lieing to them is no way to do it-
and its not just the lie- its the PERCEPTION, so even if they didn't out right catch you, if you have done things to arouse suspicion (you have you are only 15), then they will be more hesitant to trust you-
christianity or no, religion or no- and will then use religion, or thier role as your parents to outright control you, rather than teach you-
of course they could always just be bad overbearing parents and not trust you, but at least make the effort.
Find a friend - a group of friends - you can be honest with this about. A youth group, a pastor, a youth leader, some friends who aren't all about looking right and being popular but being ';real.';
You won't get exactly what you're looking for here, I'm afraid, because there's only so much total strangers can do for you.
I will say, there are a lot of simple answers you'll get you should take care to ignore. ';You have willpower, use it.'; ';Ignore your guilt.'; ';If you don't like it then just stop.'; That's not real life. Real life is complicated and messy and you do stuff you don't want to. You asked for a verse, here it is - Romans 7. A piece of it: ';I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do鈥攖his I keep on doing.'; A saint himself said that - a guy who'd traveled the world and been beat and hated for God's sake, and there he was, still screwing up. Don't listen to people who imply you're just missing some simple solution for lack of trying. We all know life isn't that easy.
So the short answer is, almost all American male teenagers have gone through what you're talking about, Christian or otherwise. Secondly, you are not going to change overnight and this will not be an easy change if you decide to stick with it. And thirdly, perhaps most importantly, you gotta find the people in your life who are going to love you even in the worst of your screw ups. So be willing to talk to them and listen to what they say. Another quote, from Jeremiah: ';I have plans to help you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'; God's right there, right now, with all the resources and people in the world to help you out. Start talking to them and thing's'll start rolling.
The fact that you feel bad about your actions is good. It is very difficult to be a teen, especially since so much of the media today is available to enable partying and sex and the rest of it.
Are your parents alive? Talk to your father. You need to channel your energy in another direction. Like a hobby or something you like to do or would like to do , like auto mechanics. You can learn anything if you put your mind to it.
You say that you are a Christian. You need to make up your mind who you want to serve, God or Satan. 1 Cor. 6:9 John 8:44 1 Cor. 15:33
Your young so you can make changes that will make you feel better. Manifest self control by changing your habits of sneaking out and having relations you might not be ready for now. Suppose someone gets pregnant? Just think of the long term consequences of your actions. You are only young once. The foundation that you build now will help you be a better adult and have a life free of guilt. Best wishes.
I wish there was a lot of time to write a detailed answer, or even better, to get a lot more info from you first and then answer...
BUT,
if you want change you will need to change these areas...
External changes
your crowd... that's right, you can't hang with them and do good. They will be your downfall every time. Proverbs 12:26 ';the righteous should choose his friends carefully, for the way of the wicked leads them astray';. Guard your heart form the foolish thinking that ';they are good people'; ';you just don't know them'; ';but they are my friends';. Your friends are bad friends and you are a bad friend to them too. You need to start fresh.
Your schedule... when you stop doing something bad you need to replace it with something good instead... go to a BIBLE teaching church, get involved with the program there, hang with people who are truly living the Christian life... Read the Bible, Jer 29:13 ';You will seek me and find me when you seek me with your whole heart';
Internal Changes
Your heart... you know what you have been doing is wrong. Repentance isn't just acknowledging it but coming to God and saying ';I give it up, I give me up, help me, save me, change me'; and being WILLING to follow through. He will enable you with the strength to do it, but the CHOICE to do it is yours.
This is the biggest issue... if you are repentant you will be willing to change your friends and your schedule. If not, you wont.
I am a youth pastor in SoCal, let me know if I can help.
Stay regular attendance in church.bring this question anonymously in bible study per say your friend for instance.';I have a friend who ...'; get a group discussion going.stay off booze wild girls give you a lot of problems you will regret latter .find a good christian girlfriend at church that will help you stay strong.type a girl who likes to sip soda with you under a shade tree and wants you for who you are Christian.
Pr 20:1 Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler; And whosoever erreth thereby is not wise.
Oh yes- like just go do what you want is good advice!!
Sex is good but oh yes- what fun you would have with a girl you may not even LIKE, have a baby with you and you will Pay and pay and pay thru the nose for that ';fun';. It's NOT all that worth it! Honest.
STD's? Lovely- oh hey by the way, beloved fiance- I just gave you herpes! Lovely wedding gift, right??? Or get AIDS- game over. Warts... YUCK you ever SEE pictures of genital warts??? Oh fun.
Ya right.
Partying is only fun ';for a season'; and yes, young people SHOULD be carefree and have fun- time enough for heavy responsibilities later on in life.
But some fun is crossing a line which can derail your future. Then ALL your good fun will be quite over, believe me.
There is good clean fun that will last a lifetime. Things like finding what fascinates you- your passions- and pursuing it. Be it geology, computers, volcanoes, weather, cars, mountain climbing, etc. The list is SO long- there's no end to it.
But sex and partying without a thought but for the moment can only bring you future sorrows. You will regret it.
Are you ready to be burdened down with a kid and girl with a ring in your nose right now? Are you ready to support yourself? Then you owe your parents some respect too, and stop the nonsense. That just shows your immaturity.
6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
6:18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
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6:13 Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
6:14 And God hath both raised up the Lord, and will also raise up us by his own power.
6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
6:17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
6:20 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.
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20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
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4:1 From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?
4:2 Ye lust, and have not: ye kill, and desire to have, and cannot obtain: ye fight and war, yet ye have not, because ye ask not.
4:3 Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.
4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.
4:5 Do ye think that the scripture saith in vain, The spirit that dwelleth in us lusteth to envy?
4:6 But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.
4:7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
4:8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.
4:9 Be afflicted, and mourn, and weep: let your laughter be turned to mourning, and your joy to heaviness.
4:10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.
Im a 15 year old girl. You should have this little thing called will power. If you want to stop, you can. However, I advise you keep at it. You are only a teen once so live the teen life (that is, boozing, partying, sex etc)
Forget guilt and enjoy life. There is nothing shameful in sex.
Plus, if you plan to be Christian all of your life, you can repent when you're on your 30s and live as you want until then.
Young couple expecting first child. Any advice on handling stress, anxiety of new life responsibilities?
This question comes from new to be grandparents.Young couple expecting first child. Any advice on handling stress, anxiety of new life responsibilities?
Yes - spend time reading books on child rearing and baby rearing - don't panic so much about the birth as it's over with relatively quickly. Accept help from everyone that offers- whether it's cleaning the home, minding baby while you sleep or go out, making you a meal or just a cuppa! Don't be too proud to ask for help! If you feel overwhelmed, find help through friends, family, child health nurse or child health clinic. Watch out for post natal depression. Work out your budget before baby comes - how is the rent/mortage going to be paid, do you need to cut back on some things to tighten the belt? Don't wait til baby comes! While you are both (hopefully!) working, buy nappies, wipes, formula (if needed) and things like that so that when baby comes, you have things that will last you for a while. When you have gotten through the first few difficult weeks, ensure you make time for each other as a couple. Just go for walks together, watch a movie on TV, and TALK. It's so hard to keep the relationship between a new mum and dad on track when you are focussed on a new baby. Join mothers' groups, playgroups, etc, and meet new parents in your local area so you have heaps of support and friends. Relax. No one's perfect, and most people do the best job they can. Good luck!Young couple expecting first child. Any advice on handling stress, anxiety of new life responsibilities?
RELAX lol, hard i know but its the best thing ya can do....im 23, just got married, got 5 month old daughter and new house....alot of responsibilities....yes you will have money troubles, and yes theres stress of the little one, but think of it like i do, getting stressed over money isnt going to make anymore magically appear, make the most of what you got,it will make you appreciate the smaller things more, having a baby is the HARDEST thing iv ever done in my life, but its also the best. I have times where i think ''why did i do this'' but you realize why when you look back and see exactly what you got. You will experience alot in the first few months of your childs life, but cherish it, dont let stress ruin it, its time you wont get back....good luck with your new baby and congrats, hope this made sense to ya xxx
Like the advice they give alcoholics: take one day at a time. work as a team. i think thats easier. even with diaper changes. I have my husband hold the legs, maybe even lift them while I wash and wipe. I hope, as with all new parents that they have a good support team.
Forget house cleaning, laundrey, washing dishes. for a while i ate off paper plates, often it was just paper towels (if i was lucky). I think, above all, sleep is soooooooooo important. Even an hour nap, if nothing else is helpful. For new parents it comes so sporatically, and RARELY!
I also suggest making foods ahead of time and freezing portions. Soups, stews, cassaroles. Spaghetti sauce, beef stew, for ex. Load up of frozen food and canned and dry items. It is such a pain to even have to run out for groceries. You don't get enough sleep and then you have to go out and pick up food? ugh. That involves possibly looking half decent in public.
If anyone offers help, take it. If anyone offers to babysit, even if its just so they can take a shower in peace, take up that offer. With my first baby I refused to accept any help. I wanted to be supermom. I was so overstressed and exhausted and I cried probably for the first three months of my babies life. With my second baby, if anone said ';If there's anything I can do to hel-'; I already said ';Yes!';. As a result I was a happier person. Therefore everyone was happier.
You never know when you'll be able to sleep next!
Oh, and if the baby is crying, and you've tried everything, its not hungry, you cuddled, you rocked, changed the diaper, burped, walked, played with, etc- and the baby insists on crying and won't stop, there is nothing wrong with putting the baby down in his crib, where its safe... then close the door and go to where you can't hear the crying. Its so aweful. they just cry and it really wears at your nerves. And if they feel so frustrated and need to talk, they should. call someone, a friend, a grandparent, anyone. chances are lots of people understand. they've been through something similar at one point in their life.
good luck!!
relax, dont worrytoo much about it. what to expect when youre expecting is a great book and it talks about your relationship as well as caring for baby. once baby is here, make sure to get out of the house once a week-even if only for an hour. having alone time together is very important. most hospitals also offer parenting classes. i did it with my first child and it taught me so much about the pregnancy and all about caring for my newborn! congrats to being new grandparents, hope this can help your family!
Yes! Read ';Baby proofing your marriage'; by Stacie Cockrell, Cathy O'Neil and Julia Stone. It's a fun, great read about anything and everything that you might run into being new parents. I read it twice and then recommended it to everyone who was pregnant or thinking about kids! Personal advice - just be very patient. New parents aren't going to know what to do all the time. Good communication is key! Good luck!
im 24 and my husband is 29. we have a 10 month old boy. my advise would be this. They need to support each other. if dad is not doing something the way that mom would do it tell her not to correct him unless it is going to hurt the baby. i found myself telling my husband he wasn't doing it right just because he wasn't doing it the way i did it and i think it made him not want to try again. Try making it 50/50.
read Baby Whisperer ... great book to happy parents and happy baby's!! try making it 100% 100% not 50 50!!!!
Yes - spend time reading books on child rearing and baby rearing - don't panic so much about the birth as it's over with relatively quickly. Accept help from everyone that offers- whether it's cleaning the home, minding baby while you sleep or go out, making you a meal or just a cuppa! Don't be too proud to ask for help! If you feel overwhelmed, find help through friends, family, child health nurse or child health clinic. Watch out for post natal depression. Work out your budget before baby comes - how is the rent/mortage going to be paid, do you need to cut back on some things to tighten the belt? Don't wait til baby comes! While you are both (hopefully!) working, buy nappies, wipes, formula (if needed) and things like that so that when baby comes, you have things that will last you for a while. When you have gotten through the first few difficult weeks, ensure you make time for each other as a couple. Just go for walks together, watch a movie on TV, and TALK. It's so hard to keep the relationship between a new mum and dad on track when you are focussed on a new baby. Join mothers' groups, playgroups, etc, and meet new parents in your local area so you have heaps of support and friends. Relax. No one's perfect, and most people do the best job they can. Good luck!Young couple expecting first child. Any advice on handling stress, anxiety of new life responsibilities?
RELAX lol, hard i know but its the best thing ya can do....im 23, just got married, got 5 month old daughter and new house....alot of responsibilities....yes you will have money troubles, and yes theres stress of the little one, but think of it like i do, getting stressed over money isnt going to make anymore magically appear, make the most of what you got,it will make you appreciate the smaller things more, having a baby is the HARDEST thing iv ever done in my life, but its also the best. I have times where i think ''why did i do this'' but you realize why when you look back and see exactly what you got. You will experience alot in the first few months of your childs life, but cherish it, dont let stress ruin it, its time you wont get back....good luck with your new baby and congrats, hope this made sense to ya xxx
Like the advice they give alcoholics: take one day at a time. work as a team. i think thats easier. even with diaper changes. I have my husband hold the legs, maybe even lift them while I wash and wipe. I hope, as with all new parents that they have a good support team.
Forget house cleaning, laundrey, washing dishes. for a while i ate off paper plates, often it was just paper towels (if i was lucky). I think, above all, sleep is soooooooooo important. Even an hour nap, if nothing else is helpful. For new parents it comes so sporatically, and RARELY!
I also suggest making foods ahead of time and freezing portions. Soups, stews, cassaroles. Spaghetti sauce, beef stew, for ex. Load up of frozen food and canned and dry items. It is such a pain to even have to run out for groceries. You don't get enough sleep and then you have to go out and pick up food? ugh. That involves possibly looking half decent in public.
If anyone offers help, take it. If anyone offers to babysit, even if its just so they can take a shower in peace, take up that offer. With my first baby I refused to accept any help. I wanted to be supermom. I was so overstressed and exhausted and I cried probably for the first three months of my babies life. With my second baby, if anone said ';If there's anything I can do to hel-'; I already said ';Yes!';. As a result I was a happier person. Therefore everyone was happier.
You never know when you'll be able to sleep next!
Oh, and if the baby is crying, and you've tried everything, its not hungry, you cuddled, you rocked, changed the diaper, burped, walked, played with, etc- and the baby insists on crying and won't stop, there is nothing wrong with putting the baby down in his crib, where its safe... then close the door and go to where you can't hear the crying. Its so aweful. they just cry and it really wears at your nerves. And if they feel so frustrated and need to talk, they should. call someone, a friend, a grandparent, anyone. chances are lots of people understand. they've been through something similar at one point in their life.
good luck!!
relax, dont worrytoo much about it. what to expect when youre expecting is a great book and it talks about your relationship as well as caring for baby. once baby is here, make sure to get out of the house once a week-even if only for an hour. having alone time together is very important. most hospitals also offer parenting classes. i did it with my first child and it taught me so much about the pregnancy and all about caring for my newborn! congrats to being new grandparents, hope this can help your family!
Yes! Read ';Baby proofing your marriage'; by Stacie Cockrell, Cathy O'Neil and Julia Stone. It's a fun, great read about anything and everything that you might run into being new parents. I read it twice and then recommended it to everyone who was pregnant or thinking about kids! Personal advice - just be very patient. New parents aren't going to know what to do all the time. Good communication is key! Good luck!
im 24 and my husband is 29. we have a 10 month old boy. my advise would be this. They need to support each other. if dad is not doing something the way that mom would do it tell her not to correct him unless it is going to hurt the baby. i found myself telling my husband he wasn't doing it right just because he wasn't doing it the way i did it and i think it made him not want to try again. Try making it 50/50.
read Baby Whisperer ... great book to happy parents and happy baby's!! try making it 100% 100% not 50 50!!!!
What advice would you give me if you wanted to make my life better?
take off whatever shell that society or you have imposed on yourself through the years, and go out and face the world as you are.
you always know what to do at any moment, the question is will you do it?(it only comes down to determination as my grandmother says)What advice would you give me if you wanted to make my life better?
The universe 'is,' you 'are,' everyone else 'is.'
Life (and the universe) is purposeless; it 'is.'
Thus, you have two options:
1) Know/be/spread enlightenment
OR
2) Know/be/spread/ ignorance
Enlightenment is truth, and truth is found only through acceptance/appreciation/peacefulness. This can be considered the 'path of good.'
Ignorance is the bending of the truth, and is practiced by questioning/listening to your ego. This can be considered the 'path of evil.'
Live to know enlightenment, be enlightened, and spread enlightenment to others in order to maintain the highest level of content one can achieve.What advice would you give me if you wanted to make my life better?
The only advice that I can give you is from what I have learned from living a life of sixty-eight years. You can take it to heart or you can ignore it. Regardless, it will always remain the way I found to happiness and contentment. I am not shy, so do not be concerned that I will, for some unknown reason, withhold any thing, or be reluctant to speak my mind. My advice to you may not be needed but if it is it will benefit you more than you can ever imagine. I encourage you to find God and accept his existence and majesty even though you may not have seen him nor heard him thus far in your life. I assure you that you will. He reveals himself in the beauty of a morning meadow in the spring. You may find him as I have in the beauty of a doe nursing her fawn at day break in a pasture in Southwest Texas. I found him recently out on the plains of Kansas when a American Bison stood above his bedding ground and remained there like the bison on an old buffalo nickle until I took all of the digital photos that I desired. He was in the natural habitat of his ancestry and he was beautiful. Several years ago I found God at Peggy's Cove near Halifax, Nova Scotia. I was making my way down the path to visit the Lighthouse there. A young lady began playing a bagpipe and as I turned around to see her the surf rushing up to the rocky coastline was behind her. I sat down on a large stone and as is always the case, tears rolled down my face and I knew that in all of this beauty I was in the presence of God. God says to me at a time like this, '; Paul this is just some of the beauty that I have created for you. You can remain here for awhile and enjoy it '; !!A, I want to share all of this with you. It will be there for you as I have found it. You will find it in a different setting but I believe that it is there if you will look for it. This is the path that I found. Walk with God on it and your life will be much better than just better.
It would be far better if your question was this:
What advice would you give me if I wanted to make my life better?
It does not matter what anyone wants for you. You can improve your life ONLY if you are the one who initiates the necessary changes. It must come from within.
Don't expect anything.
Just let life flow and act merely as a ';witness';.
Once you master the above technique your life, I promise, will certainly be better.
Best of luck.:-)
I would say stop worrying about making your life better. Just stop doing all things that make others unhappy and if possible try to make their life better. In the process your life will be better even before you realize.
Well...I don't know what is the condition of your life, so it won't be easy.
Maybe one advice I have, is to stop asking questions on Y!A and go outside, having fun? Ha ha im joking.
never give up .
if you work on it , you always would reach what you want ,, and that what ppl want , want to reach what they want
If you connected to your soul and you life if not abusive, I can do no better.
you always know what to do at any moment, the question is will you do it?(it only comes down to determination as my grandmother says)What advice would you give me if you wanted to make my life better?
The universe 'is,' you 'are,' everyone else 'is.'
Life (and the universe) is purposeless; it 'is.'
Thus, you have two options:
1) Know/be/spread enlightenment
OR
2) Know/be/spread/ ignorance
Enlightenment is truth, and truth is found only through acceptance/appreciation/peacefulness. This can be considered the 'path of good.'
Ignorance is the bending of the truth, and is practiced by questioning/listening to your ego. This can be considered the 'path of evil.'
Live to know enlightenment, be enlightened, and spread enlightenment to others in order to maintain the highest level of content one can achieve.What advice would you give me if you wanted to make my life better?
The only advice that I can give you is from what I have learned from living a life of sixty-eight years. You can take it to heart or you can ignore it. Regardless, it will always remain the way I found to happiness and contentment. I am not shy, so do not be concerned that I will, for some unknown reason, withhold any thing, or be reluctant to speak my mind. My advice to you may not be needed but if it is it will benefit you more than you can ever imagine. I encourage you to find God and accept his existence and majesty even though you may not have seen him nor heard him thus far in your life. I assure you that you will. He reveals himself in the beauty of a morning meadow in the spring. You may find him as I have in the beauty of a doe nursing her fawn at day break in a pasture in Southwest Texas. I found him recently out on the plains of Kansas when a American Bison stood above his bedding ground and remained there like the bison on an old buffalo nickle until I took all of the digital photos that I desired. He was in the natural habitat of his ancestry and he was beautiful. Several years ago I found God at Peggy's Cove near Halifax, Nova Scotia. I was making my way down the path to visit the Lighthouse there. A young lady began playing a bagpipe and as I turned around to see her the surf rushing up to the rocky coastline was behind her. I sat down on a large stone and as is always the case, tears rolled down my face and I knew that in all of this beauty I was in the presence of God. God says to me at a time like this, '; Paul this is just some of the beauty that I have created for you. You can remain here for awhile and enjoy it '; !!A, I want to share all of this with you. It will be there for you as I have found it. You will find it in a different setting but I believe that it is there if you will look for it. This is the path that I found. Walk with God on it and your life will be much better than just better.
It would be far better if your question was this:
What advice would you give me if I wanted to make my life better?
It does not matter what anyone wants for you. You can improve your life ONLY if you are the one who initiates the necessary changes. It must come from within.
Don't expect anything.
Just let life flow and act merely as a ';witness';.
Once you master the above technique your life, I promise, will certainly be better.
Best of luck.:-)
I would say stop worrying about making your life better. Just stop doing all things that make others unhappy and if possible try to make their life better. In the process your life will be better even before you realize.
Well...I don't know what is the condition of your life, so it won't be easy.
Maybe one advice I have, is to stop asking questions on Y!A and go outside, having fun? Ha ha im joking.
never give up .
if you work on it , you always would reach what you want ,, and that what ppl want , want to reach what they want
If you connected to your soul and you life if not abusive, I can do no better.
Looking for medical advice on a baby who stopped breathing for 20 minutes and is now in a coma on life support?
If anyone has been in a similar situation or knows of something we can maybe ask the doctors to do to try and wake her up please help.Looking for medical advice on a baby who stopped breathing for 20 minutes and is now in a coma on life support?
if she was getting CPR withing afew minutes of her stopping breathing, chancces are she wont have much brain damage at all if any. however, as you would know, babies are very delicate creatures, anything could happen.
but you dont want to wake her up. if she is in a coma its her body saying ';just give me a bit of a break, im saving all my energy by sleeping to try and make myself better';. but if shes in a coma for more than afew days, that could also cause brain damage,.
wow, i probably just made you feel really horrible. so sorry.Looking for medical advice on a baby who stopped breathing for 20 minutes and is now in a coma on life support?
Sorry to hear of your situation- according to medicine 4-6 minutes is the only lee way you can really give for no oxygen to the brain. After that severe brain damage can occur. Since no breathing was occuring you would have to assume the infants oxygen storage was used within those for 4-6 minutes. If the infant can recover from the coma i would expect brain damage of some kind.
I would speak with a neurologist about the possibility of recovering from a coma- it is possible but also ask what to expect- and what treatment plan you can put the baby on to induce a coma recovery if any.
Oh dear. Oh dear. 20 minute without oxygen is terrible. Chances are high there is brain damage. Even if the baby wakes up, it will have major set backs. Do talk to your doctors to ask what the baby will be like if it wakes up, will there be brain damage? Ask yourself if this tiny human being can ever have a full life? I am not advocating euthanasia! I am only wondering if we should torture someone so small and innocent. I feel sad I can not give you a more hope giving answer.
sorry 20mins is to long to go without suffering brain damage
if she was getting CPR withing afew minutes of her stopping breathing, chancces are she wont have much brain damage at all if any. however, as you would know, babies are very delicate creatures, anything could happen.
but you dont want to wake her up. if she is in a coma its her body saying ';just give me a bit of a break, im saving all my energy by sleeping to try and make myself better';. but if shes in a coma for more than afew days, that could also cause brain damage,.
wow, i probably just made you feel really horrible. so sorry.Looking for medical advice on a baby who stopped breathing for 20 minutes and is now in a coma on life support?
Sorry to hear of your situation- according to medicine 4-6 minutes is the only lee way you can really give for no oxygen to the brain. After that severe brain damage can occur. Since no breathing was occuring you would have to assume the infants oxygen storage was used within those for 4-6 minutes. If the infant can recover from the coma i would expect brain damage of some kind.
I would speak with a neurologist about the possibility of recovering from a coma- it is possible but also ask what to expect- and what treatment plan you can put the baby on to induce a coma recovery if any.
Oh dear. Oh dear. 20 minute without oxygen is terrible. Chances are high there is brain damage. Even if the baby wakes up, it will have major set backs. Do talk to your doctors to ask what the baby will be like if it wakes up, will there be brain damage? Ask yourself if this tiny human being can ever have a full life? I am not advocating euthanasia! I am only wondering if we should torture someone so small and innocent. I feel sad I can not give you a more hope giving answer.
sorry 20mins is to long to go without suffering brain damage
How can i get my hair to curl like adrienne's on secret life? or just any other hair curling tips/advice?
If you want loose, bouncy curls, use a straightener to curl your hair. Make sure you use hairspray so the curls will stay!
Check out the link!
Hope this helps!How can i get my hair to curl like adrienne's on secret life? or just any other hair curling tips/advice?
curl your hair with the iron pointing upward. and when you release the hair pull the iron down and it will make spiral curls.cartridge
Check out the link!
Hope this helps!How can i get my hair to curl like adrienne's on secret life? or just any other hair curling tips/advice?
curl your hair with the iron pointing upward. and when you release the hair pull the iron down and it will make spiral curls.
Do you have any advice or ideas to stop anxiety and be more relaxed towards life in general?
Can you recommend anything to stop anxiety due to daily stress and general problems? Is there a way to stop worrying to much about everything and not being able to relax?
Any ideas, recommendations or advices would be great. Thanks!Do you have any advice or ideas to stop anxiety and be more relaxed towards life in general?
I have GAD, and while I see a therapist and am on meds, there are many other things not QUITE that severe I suggest.
Read a funny book, watch a fun movie, take deep breaths and a 1 minute workout during the day, write down your worry and shred it, color, go for a walk, take time for a warm bath or shower, drink more water, enjoy a sunrise/sunset, take time our for YOU.Do you have any advice or ideas to stop anxiety and be more relaxed towards life in general?
Think of POSITIVE things that happened to your life,the most happiest moment you have. Always bear in Mind that Problems in Life is the Real Spice of Life that keeps you going. Always look at them as a Real Test of your Personal Capabilities. Be strong, PRAY, Problems come and Go if you will just analyze them, all problems have solutions just like in the School Assignments.
Built your SELF CONFIDENCE, this one good way to fight anxiety and be RELAX in facing all trials of life.Never,never let problems stays in your mind once you get rid of it,MOVE FORWARD let it go...it will not help you once you stored them in your Mental State. Hope this message helps you.
hiya
relax cd,there are loads of thing you could try
http://www.anxiety-and-depression-soluti鈥?/a>
talk to your doctor they maybe able to help
good luck hun :o)
Take a warm bath at night..or just go to your doctor and tell them you have anxiety..let them know your issues and they will give you meds to balance you out...sometimes theres nothing you can do because it it an imbalance, but the doctor can help you....everyone has daily stress..try to do excersise..set aside a time just for you....helps me:)
No electronics before bed would be one, or you could just look up about 5 billion other post about this topic
it's called choice.... look into it.
Xanax.
You need to go see your family Dr. With the help of medication, you can eventually feel like your a part of the world instead of being held hostage in your mind. Once the meds start working which generally takes as long as a month, then you start working on a mind set, and elevate stress that you really don't need in your life. If your serious, you can make it better, but you have to let some things go. ';Stop and smell the roses';!
smoke a joint every now and then
Meditate and think happy thoughts
read
You may not be able to totally stop the anxiety but you can get it more under control. Is there anything you can think of that if you could change it that would be less stressful? Work, friends atmosphere? Walking is wonderful and will cause your brain to produce a chemical that makes you feel better. I also have enjoyed attending a church and being involved. Volunteering at a school or a library, are something that your interested in is also good because their are so many blessings that come from it. You want to control your anxiety not have it control you. If you feel that you need to share this with your doctor feel free to. We are living in such a fast moving world and sometimes we need to slow it down a bit.
Try this program. I did and It has helped me in so many areas of life I can't even count them all.
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Any ideas, recommendations or advices would be great. Thanks!Do you have any advice or ideas to stop anxiety and be more relaxed towards life in general?
I have GAD, and while I see a therapist and am on meds, there are many other things not QUITE that severe I suggest.
Read a funny book, watch a fun movie, take deep breaths and a 1 minute workout during the day, write down your worry and shred it, color, go for a walk, take time for a warm bath or shower, drink more water, enjoy a sunrise/sunset, take time our for YOU.Do you have any advice or ideas to stop anxiety and be more relaxed towards life in general?
Think of POSITIVE things that happened to your life,the most happiest moment you have. Always bear in Mind that Problems in Life is the Real Spice of Life that keeps you going. Always look at them as a Real Test of your Personal Capabilities. Be strong, PRAY, Problems come and Go if you will just analyze them, all problems have solutions just like in the School Assignments.
Built your SELF CONFIDENCE, this one good way to fight anxiety and be RELAX in facing all trials of life.Never,never let problems stays in your mind once you get rid of it,MOVE FORWARD let it go...it will not help you once you stored them in your Mental State. Hope this message helps you.
hiya
relax cd,there are loads of thing you could try
http://www.anxiety-and-depression-soluti鈥?/a>
talk to your doctor they maybe able to help
good luck hun :o)
Take a warm bath at night..or just go to your doctor and tell them you have anxiety..let them know your issues and they will give you meds to balance you out...sometimes theres nothing you can do because it it an imbalance, but the doctor can help you....everyone has daily stress..try to do excersise..set aside a time just for you....helps me:)
No electronics before bed would be one, or you could just look up about 5 billion other post about this topic
it's called choice.... look into it.
Xanax.
You need to go see your family Dr. With the help of medication, you can eventually feel like your a part of the world instead of being held hostage in your mind. Once the meds start working which generally takes as long as a month, then you start working on a mind set, and elevate stress that you really don't need in your life. If your serious, you can make it better, but you have to let some things go. ';Stop and smell the roses';!
smoke a joint every now and then
Meditate and think happy thoughts
read
You may not be able to totally stop the anxiety but you can get it more under control. Is there anything you can think of that if you could change it that would be less stressful? Work, friends atmosphere? Walking is wonderful and will cause your brain to produce a chemical that makes you feel better. I also have enjoyed attending a church and being involved. Volunteering at a school or a library, are something that your interested in is also good because their are so many blessings that come from it. You want to control your anxiety not have it control you. If you feel that you need to share this with your doctor feel free to. We are living in such a fast moving world and sometimes we need to slow it down a bit.
Try this program. I did and It has helped me in so many areas of life I can't even count them all.
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Anybody got any life advice to write?
Any little quotes just to get people through their day if their feeling down. Mine is - when life hits you hard, get back up and hit it back harder.Anybody got any life advice to write?
There are no quotes necessary. Just remember that when you are down, its not going to last forever. Think about something that helps you relax. Get out of usual routine. For some its shopping, for some its a little nap and after nap you would be surprised how well you will feel. At times I felt like beating people up but after nap its gone.
Also it is important to have a Goal. Make sure you have one and make sure you work for it. that way you will have no time to be let down by ';mean people'; as you said in some of your other questions I answered. You seem actually very down, but it will go away if you will do what I told you.Anybody got any life advice to write?
Here are a few things to ponder:
If a caterpillar can turn into a butterfly, what can you turn into?
At one point in life I said “Why me?” then one day I changed it to “Why not me?” I started to value my feelings and thoughts, instead of just doing everything that I was expected to.
People and snow flakes, no two are exactly alike, yet from afar you can not tell any two apart. One by itself may not amount to much but a bunch together can change the world.
When you start toward a destination, sometimes you may get side tracked or look at a different view. As long as we have the destination in mind and keep working toward getting there, you are making progress toward that destination.
Seeing the stars at night, is like looking into the unconscious mind and seeing dreams in your sleep. In the daytime, while in the conscious mind, when you are awake, the stars are still there but we may not see them.
Is it better to try but fail or fail to try?
Do the best you can with what you've got.
What are you doing to change, to improve, to grow?
With desire and practice, great things can be accomplished.
Laughter is the same, in every language.
Good Thoughts - Good Actions - Good Deeds
some of these aren't so encouraging, but they are funny :]
';the man that smiles when something goes wrong, has thought of someone to blame it on.';
';the key to life... breathe !';
';you always seem to find something in the last spot you looked for it!';
';friendship is like wetting your pants. everyone can see it, but only you can feel it !';
';you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can't pick your friend's nose !';
';shoot for the moon, because even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.';
';never let the fear of striking out keep you rom playing the game.';
';there are no stupid questions, just stupid people !';
';what are three words guarnteed to humiliate any man anywhere?... 'hold my purse!!!'';
';flying is learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss!';
hah :]]
Someone told me this many years ago when I was not in a very good place and it's always stayed with me and come to my mind if ever I'm not feeling my best.
';everything passes';
Whether it be emotions or circumstance nothing stays the same everything moves on even the bad times.
simple but it helps me !
People, who are always running away from their problems, take their problems with them. Problems are like shadows they follow you wherever you go.
·If you work around perfume you will smell good. Negativity stinks watch where your step.
You don’t have to be tall to look down on people, come on down and you won’t be so lonely.
';When you feel like you are at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on';
Funny one:
';When you're feeling down in the dumps, just remember that you were the 'Little Swimmer' that beat all the rest';
(if you know what I mean)
Ladies and gentlemen, a little advice for the future;
Don't dwell on things of the past, live simply, wear sunscreen, don't congratulate yourself too much. :]
When life gets you down, and all the troaumas andtragedic of civilisation seem overwhelming, go somewhere quite where you can watch animal at play, see how they accept life as it is.
There is nothing as over-rated as bad sex and nothing as under-rated as a good burp!
THe problem with that is life will always hit harder and longer.
Better to learn acceptance, of the things we cant change
All of life could be but a fantasy, so be comfortable in the part you pick, and play it well........
Don't run the race, just chill and watch them trip on each other.
what's meant for you won't go past you
or
life is what you make of it
I've got a similar one. When life farts on you, **** right on it.
Umm
Forget about the past and focus on the future
Keep your eye on the prize
it'll hit you last lol
just live it x
There are no quotes necessary. Just remember that when you are down, its not going to last forever. Think about something that helps you relax. Get out of usual routine. For some its shopping, for some its a little nap and after nap you would be surprised how well you will feel. At times I felt like beating people up but after nap its gone.
Also it is important to have a Goal. Make sure you have one and make sure you work for it. that way you will have no time to be let down by ';mean people'; as you said in some of your other questions I answered. You seem actually very down, but it will go away if you will do what I told you.Anybody got any life advice to write?
Here are a few things to ponder:
If a caterpillar can turn into a butterfly, what can you turn into?
At one point in life I said “Why me?” then one day I changed it to “Why not me?” I started to value my feelings and thoughts, instead of just doing everything that I was expected to.
People and snow flakes, no two are exactly alike, yet from afar you can not tell any two apart. One by itself may not amount to much but a bunch together can change the world.
When you start toward a destination, sometimes you may get side tracked or look at a different view. As long as we have the destination in mind and keep working toward getting there, you are making progress toward that destination.
Seeing the stars at night, is like looking into the unconscious mind and seeing dreams in your sleep. In the daytime, while in the conscious mind, when you are awake, the stars are still there but we may not see them.
Is it better to try but fail or fail to try?
Do the best you can with what you've got.
What are you doing to change, to improve, to grow?
With desire and practice, great things can be accomplished.
Laughter is the same, in every language.
Good Thoughts - Good Actions - Good Deeds
some of these aren't so encouraging, but they are funny :]
';the man that smiles when something goes wrong, has thought of someone to blame it on.';
';the key to life... breathe !';
';you always seem to find something in the last spot you looked for it!';
';friendship is like wetting your pants. everyone can see it, but only you can feel it !';
';you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can't pick your friend's nose !';
';shoot for the moon, because even if you miss, you'll land among the stars.';
';never let the fear of striking out keep you rom playing the game.';
';there are no stupid questions, just stupid people !';
';what are three words guarnteed to humiliate any man anywhere?... 'hold my purse!!!'';
';flying is learning how to throw yourself at the ground and miss!';
hah :]]
Someone told me this many years ago when I was not in a very good place and it's always stayed with me and come to my mind if ever I'm not feeling my best.
';everything passes';
Whether it be emotions or circumstance nothing stays the same everything moves on even the bad times.
simple but it helps me !
People, who are always running away from their problems, take their problems with them. Problems are like shadows they follow you wherever you go.
·If you work around perfume you will smell good. Negativity stinks watch where your step.
You don’t have to be tall to look down on people, come on down and you won’t be so lonely.
';When you feel like you are at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hold on';
Funny one:
';When you're feeling down in the dumps, just remember that you were the 'Little Swimmer' that beat all the rest';
(if you know what I mean)
Ladies and gentlemen, a little advice for the future;
Don't dwell on things of the past, live simply, wear sunscreen, don't congratulate yourself too much. :]
When life gets you down, and all the troaumas andtragedic of civilisation seem overwhelming, go somewhere quite where you can watch animal at play, see how they accept life as it is.
There is nothing as over-rated as bad sex and nothing as under-rated as a good burp!
THe problem with that is life will always hit harder and longer.
Better to learn acceptance, of the things we cant change
All of life could be but a fantasy, so be comfortable in the part you pick, and play it well........
Don't run the race, just chill and watch them trip on each other.
what's meant for you won't go past you
or
life is what you make of it
I've got a similar one. When life farts on you, **** right on it.
Umm
Forget about the past and focus on the future
Keep your eye on the prize
it'll hit you last lol
just live it x
WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE?
Here's a few I could think of;
Trust no one, no matter how good of friends you can be.
Sex is for fun! (virgin but i know it's true)
there is always a way out.WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE?
You were born an original, don't die a copy.WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE?
Don't stress out too much about things. Your young so embrace it. Have fun and be ';out there'; but don't don't do bad things and be crazy. Try as many things as possible. Push yourself to the limit and touch the sky. Follow your dreams, don't let anyone stop you from it. High school is just school so popularity is NOT important. But still be social and have lots of friends because its a good way to be a teenager and have fun.
My dad has told me this
'; tell me whom you walk with and I will tell you who you are';
basically saying if you hang around with the bad kind of people, that's what you are going to end up being.
oh and I saw this other one on the internet
it was like '; people laugh at me because im different, I laugh at you because you all are the same';
';No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.';- Eleanor Roosevelt
Don't be 'that guy', 'that guy' being that jack@$$ that pushes people when they're carrying heavy loads for no reason whatsoever. Heavy loads being a 20 pound backpack that could easily hurt someone seriously.
I'm not 'that guy' I'm the one that guy pushed :%26lt;
Trolling is fun
Trust no-one
Don't develop an eating disorder, oh man, biology scared the shiz out of me ;~; the skeletons, scary, so scary. And then the part where your body consumes itself for energy ;~;
Umm, probably don't trust any adult with anything, because the vast majority of them don't trust or take any teenager seriously.
I love the one that says be yourself .. there's no one better:)
You only live once also so do stuff that your scared of .. live passionatly
like party , drink , love :)
anything that makes you happy
TEENS ARE THE BESS
Hm..
Get over yourself - the world does NOT revolve around you.
^ I learned that one the hard way.
AND
Be yourself, there's no one better.
Life isn't as bad as it seems. Without rain, you can't have rainbows.
it. goes. on.
Got a few edit.
Hmm, S*** happens and life isn't fair. ^^
you are who you hang out with
Trust no one, no matter how good of friends you can be.
Sex is for fun! (virgin but i know it's true)
there is always a way out.WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE?
You were born an original, don't die a copy.WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE YOU HAVE LEARNED ABOUT TEENAGE LIFE?
Don't stress out too much about things. Your young so embrace it. Have fun and be ';out there'; but don't don't do bad things and be crazy. Try as many things as possible. Push yourself to the limit and touch the sky. Follow your dreams, don't let anyone stop you from it. High school is just school so popularity is NOT important. But still be social and have lots of friends because its a good way to be a teenager and have fun.
My dad has told me this
'; tell me whom you walk with and I will tell you who you are';
basically saying if you hang around with the bad kind of people, that's what you are going to end up being.
oh and I saw this other one on the internet
it was like '; people laugh at me because im different, I laugh at you because you all are the same';
';No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.';- Eleanor Roosevelt
Don't be 'that guy', 'that guy' being that jack@$$ that pushes people when they're carrying heavy loads for no reason whatsoever. Heavy loads being a 20 pound backpack that could easily hurt someone seriously.
I'm not 'that guy' I'm the one that guy pushed :%26lt;
Trolling is fun
Trust no-one
Don't develop an eating disorder, oh man, biology scared the shiz out of me ;~; the skeletons, scary, so scary. And then the part where your body consumes itself for energy ;~;
Umm, probably don't trust any adult with anything, because the vast majority of them don't trust or take any teenager seriously.
I love the one that says be yourself .. there's no one better:)
You only live once also so do stuff that your scared of .. live passionatly
like party , drink , love :)
anything that makes you happy
TEENS ARE THE BESS
Hm..
Get over yourself - the world does NOT revolve around you.
^ I learned that one the hard way.
AND
Be yourself, there's no one better.
Life isn't as bad as it seems. Without rain, you can't have rainbows.
it. goes. on.
Got a few edit.
Hmm, S*** happens and life isn't fair. ^^
you are who you hang out with
Is anyone ever worried that they give wrong advice and it has a negative affect on someones life?
I do wonder that answers in the medical or relationship sections could cause more harm than good. Has anyone else thought this or had experience of thisIs anyone ever worried that they give wrong advice and it has a negative affect on someones life?
i think this all the time. My friends and family always make comments about my partner that i could really do without. Like one time my partner was going out and i was happy that he did, then my mom was implying that he might be doing something other than goin out with his mates. Well this played and played on my mind until i rang him up wanting him to come home to me. We argued and fell out and i think if i hadnt of listened to babble that we'd have been fine. I make it a point not to let ANY ones advice affect my life anymore and im a lot happier as i feel in control. no idea if this will help :-)Is anyone ever worried that they give wrong advice and it has a negative affect on someones life?
The onus is on the person asking the question to actually act on the advice. He or she may take the answers into consideration and use them to help arrive at a decision, and get some insight into their problem. As for medical issues, remember the old Russian proverb: ';Trust, but first verify';. Anyone with a serious problem would likely seek a doctor's advice, though again they could use YA for insight. The final call in any medical case should always be left to a professional, and you would be a fool to think or do otherwise.
I only answer medical questions if I have a knowledge or personal experience on them. As for relationships, it's mostly my opinions and I'm sure most people are the same. I think people ask to get an idea of other people's opinions, hear things from a different perspective but at the end of the day, what they decide is their decision and shouldn't be based on some stranger from the internet.
I dnt really answer medical questions.
I am pretty confident with my knowledge of relationships. I tend to give sense and wisdom not really what they should do and how.
I guess i just remind them of what they already know but cant face up to.
Yeh I do, but I mainly try just suggesting now rather than say do this.. I say perhaps you could try or maybe you should that way it eases that kind of burden. I also wouldn't suggest something if I wasn't prepared to do it myself, or had experienced it.
I make it a practice to never answer something that I do not have an understanding of, like medical issues. If someone has a medical question I will tell them to get reliable information from their doctor. I will only answer what I know about.
worried? life goes on no matter what.
medical: only stupid people takes an advice from a non-professional stranger.
relationship: we have our own beliefs, and if it's serious, they should go to a psych.
No because what it balls down to is people are going to do what they want to do no matter what.You can give people give advice ,and they still do what they want to do.
If im not sure i wont answer i dont want to have a massive impact on issues such as these
i think this all the time. My friends and family always make comments about my partner that i could really do without. Like one time my partner was going out and i was happy that he did, then my mom was implying that he might be doing something other than goin out with his mates. Well this played and played on my mind until i rang him up wanting him to come home to me. We argued and fell out and i think if i hadnt of listened to babble that we'd have been fine. I make it a point not to let ANY ones advice affect my life anymore and im a lot happier as i feel in control. no idea if this will help :-)Is anyone ever worried that they give wrong advice and it has a negative affect on someones life?
The onus is on the person asking the question to actually act on the advice. He or she may take the answers into consideration and use them to help arrive at a decision, and get some insight into their problem. As for medical issues, remember the old Russian proverb: ';Trust, but first verify';. Anyone with a serious problem would likely seek a doctor's advice, though again they could use YA for insight. The final call in any medical case should always be left to a professional, and you would be a fool to think or do otherwise.
I only answer medical questions if I have a knowledge or personal experience on them. As for relationships, it's mostly my opinions and I'm sure most people are the same. I think people ask to get an idea of other people's opinions, hear things from a different perspective but at the end of the day, what they decide is their decision and shouldn't be based on some stranger from the internet.
I dnt really answer medical questions.
I am pretty confident with my knowledge of relationships. I tend to give sense and wisdom not really what they should do and how.
I guess i just remind them of what they already know but cant face up to.
Yeh I do, but I mainly try just suggesting now rather than say do this.. I say perhaps you could try or maybe you should that way it eases that kind of burden. I also wouldn't suggest something if I wasn't prepared to do it myself, or had experienced it.
I make it a practice to never answer something that I do not have an understanding of, like medical issues. If someone has a medical question I will tell them to get reliable information from their doctor. I will only answer what I know about.
worried? life goes on no matter what.
medical: only stupid people takes an advice from a non-professional stranger.
relationship: we have our own beliefs, and if it's serious, they should go to a psych.
No because what it balls down to is people are going to do what they want to do no matter what.You can give people give advice ,and they still do what they want to do.
If im not sure i wont answer i dont want to have a massive impact on issues such as these
What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
Look at the moon a lot.
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Don't forget anything important.What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
I heard something along these lines in a sermon a little while ago:
Assume that other people are in serious trouble, and you'll be right more than half the time.
It's always good to remember that other people may have factors that are causing them to interact with you the way they do.
I'd rather not give my age on Yahoo! Answers.
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Don't forget anything important.What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
I heard something along these lines in a sermon a little while ago:
Assume that other people are in serious trouble, and you'll be right more than half the time.
It's always good to remember that other people may have factors that are causing them to interact with you the way they do.
I'd rather not give my age on Yahoo! Answers.
I need as many advice for a healthy life style as possible!Can you help me please?
Thanks.I need as many advice for a healthy life style as possible!Can you help me please?
Sleep 8 hours a night, dring 8 glasses of water everyday. eat good wholesome foods, get exercise everyday.I need as many advice for a healthy life style as possible!Can you help me please?
make sure u eat a balenced diet,excercise regularly, get plenty of sleep and drink lots of water.
I read somewhere ';if it doesn't rot don't eat it';. Eat things that are closest to there natural state. Stay away from food with chemicals, hormones, sugar, and no processed foods.
Exercise and eat healthy. Exercising doesn't necessary mean that you can't have fun, if I where you I would do something I can enjoy (in my case squash and aerobics). Same thing with eating healthy, don't starve yourself to death, eat a lot fruits and vegetables and if you could change to wheat it would be better. Eat 3 times a week meat ,possibly only once red meat(of course this doesn't appeal to vegetarians), and 3 times fish.
eat right. no more pizza or chinese food or stuff like that. most cornor stores or nearby stores might make sandwiches. instead of grabbing take out grab that. instead of having an afternoon coke drink water(saves 97 calories) instead of using ur break to eat a snack or catch up on work walk up and down stairs or walk around somewhere( burned 100 calories)
Bicycling=440 calories burned
Hiking=370 calories burned
Horseback Riding=279 calories burned
Running=1,118 calories burned
Walking=265 calories burned
Swimming=419 calories burned
Tennis=489 calories burned
Also remember eating right is also really important too. Try eating things like grapefruits, apples, grapes, oranges and stuff like that.
Breakfast- a fruit and toast with cream cheese or something else that doesnt have too mcuh fat.
Lunch-a fruit, a sancwich with lettuce and mayo and cheese. You can do ham too but I don't recomend meat and carbs toegther.
Dinner-Try something low fat. You can get many recipes on foodnetwork.com or on allrecipes.com. Don't eat anything fried or all your work is in the toilet.
Bedtime snack-an orange
Other snacks throughtout the day-fruits, toast, a piece of meat no bigger than your palm. I also reccomend you keep a checklist of stuff u eat like if you eat a carbohydrate, put a check next to it and protein and vegetable and fruit and dairy do the same thing. Kind of like a food diary. Don't do a stupid diet cuz that is stupid.If the ingredient label says ';High Fructose Corn Syrup';, or anything with the words ';Partially Hydrogenated'; then put it down. Also choose sugar over artificial sweeteners. GOOD LUCK!cartridge
Sleep 8 hours a night, dring 8 glasses of water everyday. eat good wholesome foods, get exercise everyday.I need as many advice for a healthy life style as possible!Can you help me please?
make sure u eat a balenced diet,excercise regularly, get plenty of sleep and drink lots of water.
I read somewhere ';if it doesn't rot don't eat it';. Eat things that are closest to there natural state. Stay away from food with chemicals, hormones, sugar, and no processed foods.
Exercise and eat healthy. Exercising doesn't necessary mean that you can't have fun, if I where you I would do something I can enjoy (in my case squash and aerobics). Same thing with eating healthy, don't starve yourself to death, eat a lot fruits and vegetables and if you could change to wheat it would be better. Eat 3 times a week meat ,possibly only once red meat(of course this doesn't appeal to vegetarians), and 3 times fish.
eat right. no more pizza or chinese food or stuff like that. most cornor stores or nearby stores might make sandwiches. instead of grabbing take out grab that. instead of having an afternoon coke drink water(saves 97 calories) instead of using ur break to eat a snack or catch up on work walk up and down stairs or walk around somewhere( burned 100 calories)
Bicycling=440 calories burned
Hiking=370 calories burned
Horseback Riding=279 calories burned
Running=1,118 calories burned
Walking=265 calories burned
Swimming=419 calories burned
Tennis=489 calories burned
Also remember eating right is also really important too. Try eating things like grapefruits, apples, grapes, oranges and stuff like that.
Breakfast- a fruit and toast with cream cheese or something else that doesnt have too mcuh fat.
Lunch-a fruit, a sancwich with lettuce and mayo and cheese. You can do ham too but I don't recomend meat and carbs toegther.
Dinner-Try something low fat. You can get many recipes on foodnetwork.com or on allrecipes.com. Don't eat anything fried or all your work is in the toilet.
Bedtime snack-an orange
Other snacks throughtout the day-fruits, toast, a piece of meat no bigger than your palm. I also reccomend you keep a checklist of stuff u eat like if you eat a carbohydrate, put a check next to it and protein and vegetable and fruit and dairy do the same thing. Kind of like a food diary. Don't do a stupid diet cuz that is stupid.If the ingredient label says ';High Fructose Corn Syrup';, or anything with the words ';Partially Hydrogenated'; then put it down. Also choose sugar over artificial sweeteners. GOOD LUCK!
Im getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
IM getting kinda bored with my life. Same ol job, school, and gf. Shes great and i want to keep her around. But in my spare time i just get really bored. i have plenty of friends but we always just do the same thing. i just want some excitement. im already pretty active, i just need something new. any help is very appreciatedIm getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
Try to do something like get your hair cut or by something. You can also just try a hobby. That's what I do when I get bored.Im getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
Move out of your, town, city, country; this way you'll learn why it is that other people never get bored. it sounds to me like you have lived in the same place too long, either that or your resources are limited.
I am getting bored just reading your question.
You are all about you and your pleasure. You are too small.
Life will not get more interesting until you get beyond yourself and start contributing to something larger than yourself. You stand at the brink of maturity and say 'nope, I'm more important than anything else I see.'
Your life will begin when you get beyond yourself.
It sounds like you're looking for happiness from external sources only.
The problem with that is happiness, on that route, will always be temporary. Because you're only allowing yourself to be happy when something external happens.
Step back and think about that.
You allow yourself to be happy. Its all inside you. It sounds corny, but its as true as anything.
You are the source of your own happiness.
But you need to convince yourself that you deserve it. Tell yourself that you deserve to be happy. When your brain asks 'why', tell yourself that its because you suffer from being human. We all suffer as humans, so we all deserve to be happy. But we never deserve to suffer. We just do suffer.
Remember.....
people and things external can be really cool, but will only allow you temporary happiness. That is why you're bored.
Lasting happiness is inside, because that's where your feelings generate. That's the source.
It really is that easy.
When you realize that, you will not be bored.
do something for the world instead of complaining, help the poor and hungry children, dont you think they are bored being in such a situation too??
or ultimately become a clown
try reading volunteer some where take a class(dancing) or move to another state or city that always works for me
Try to do something like get your hair cut or by something. You can also just try a hobby. That's what I do when I get bored.Im getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
Move out of your, town, city, country; this way you'll learn why it is that other people never get bored. it sounds to me like you have lived in the same place too long, either that or your resources are limited.
I am getting bored just reading your question.
You are all about you and your pleasure. You are too small.
Life will not get more interesting until you get beyond yourself and start contributing to something larger than yourself. You stand at the brink of maturity and say 'nope, I'm more important than anything else I see.'
Your life will begin when you get beyond yourself.
It sounds like you're looking for happiness from external sources only.
The problem with that is happiness, on that route, will always be temporary. Because you're only allowing yourself to be happy when something external happens.
Step back and think about that.
You allow yourself to be happy. Its all inside you. It sounds corny, but its as true as anything.
You are the source of your own happiness.
But you need to convince yourself that you deserve it. Tell yourself that you deserve to be happy. When your brain asks 'why', tell yourself that its because you suffer from being human. We all suffer as humans, so we all deserve to be happy. But we never deserve to suffer. We just do suffer.
Remember.....
people and things external can be really cool, but will only allow you temporary happiness. That is why you're bored.
Lasting happiness is inside, because that's where your feelings generate. That's the source.
It really is that easy.
When you realize that, you will not be bored.
do something for the world instead of complaining, help the poor and hungry children, dont you think they are bored being in such a situation too??
or ultimately become a clown
try reading volunteer some where take a class(dancing) or move to another state or city that always works for me
What does this quote mean? '; The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others';?
You know how you can give really good advice to someone, but when it comes to your life you can't seem to think as clearly or advise yourself?
That's what this quote is hinting at.
It means that the best way to have a good life is to follow the advise we give to other people but can never quite follow ourselves.
For example, if your friend tells you that her boyfriend hits her, you would say ';If he loved you, he wouldnt hurt you. You should leave him'; but if you were in her shoes you couldn't make yourself see the logic and truth behind that advice. Therefore, you would stay.
I hope it helps.What does this quote mean? '; The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others';?
well it means (whenever you secceed in life..... you must act for it and if somebody asks for help give them good advices!!!!!!!)What does this quote mean? '; The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others';?
You give advice more clearly to others, more unbiased. So if you act on the advice you have given others in that situation then, of course, it is going to be more clear cut and not swayed by personal feelings in your own life.
Sometimes this can be a bit harsh when we really do it though, as sometimes we are more strict and more apt to be critical of someone else than of our own choices.
That's what this quote is hinting at.
It means that the best way to have a good life is to follow the advise we give to other people but can never quite follow ourselves.
For example, if your friend tells you that her boyfriend hits her, you would say ';If he loved you, he wouldnt hurt you. You should leave him'; but if you were in her shoes you couldn't make yourself see the logic and truth behind that advice. Therefore, you would stay.
I hope it helps.What does this quote mean? '; The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others';?
well it means (whenever you secceed in life..... you must act for it and if somebody asks for help give them good advices!!!!!!!)What does this quote mean? '; The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others';?
You give advice more clearly to others, more unbiased. So if you act on the advice you have given others in that situation then, of course, it is going to be more clear cut and not swayed by personal feelings in your own life.
Sometimes this can be a bit harsh when we really do it though, as sometimes we are more strict and more apt to be critical of someone else than of our own choices.
I need life advice, please help?
I feel like im drowning in my own life. My college career is falling apart. I'm a smart kid but I can not focus or even commit to classes and schoolwork. I am consistently turning to drugs and alcohol instead of facing my problems. I don't know if I can handle this alone anymore. I don't know exactly how to go about fixing my problems at this point. I'm lost.I need life advice, please help?
Hey..
I see u seem to be struggling to find what's ur purpose in life. Like, life is so empty, no fun, boring and etc. And that's why u turn into drugs and alcohol to give u the ';high'; and the adrenaline in ur blood running. But there is more than this in life. :)
Spend more of ur time doing something more fulflling or fun. Take up yoga or some exercise. This will make u sweat and releases stress and tension.
Talk to a close friend and relative.Tell someone u trust and ask them to help u and guide u. And u can even have posters or reminders pasted on ur wall saying.. ';Stop the drugs! Or u'll regret it!'; or whatever that would sorta impact you.
It's good that u take the initiative to ask for help here..but after we've given our advice..it is all UP to YOU.. to do it. You either DO it or SCREW it.
Your life is hanging on a thin thread. So you gotta make a good decision.
ALL THE BEST AND TAKE CARE! BE STRONG!
(and know that God's always with you.)
ps - i'm not trying to be religious or something..but it's this faith i've hold unto that keeps me alive. sorry if u're a non religious personI need life advice, please help?
You're going to need to give up the drugs and alchohol and have a talk to your professors about your academic performance issues. But, before you do go have a talk to a cousellor. In Australia university students usually have access to a range of mental health services. They are often free or available to students at a minimal cost. See if your college offers something similar and make an appointment to see them. Thats your first step to fixing your problems.
I read this once Watch your thoughts they become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character defines your Destiny. the drugs and alcohol will impair your true self you are feeling the loss feeling like that because you are denying your true heart and soul desire that will fulfill your existence Stop all the negative habits and you will regain a positive disposition to life Good luck Ask for help school counsellor or exterior support
Kneel down, Have a heart to heart talk with Jesus Christ. He will deliver you from the alcohol and drugs. He has set many captives free. He set me free from verbally abusing people. He has set me free from the downfall of sanity. Here you go, try this:
Father in heaven, I know you hear me crying out, I cannot take anymore of the bad deeds being done to my body. I know in my conscience that the body is a temple of the holy spirit. I need you more than ever to fill me with love, compassion, and a sound mind. I am in need of spiritual wisdom. I know your ways are higher than my ways. Your thoughts are higher than my thoughts. I plead the blood you shed at calvery to attone for my sins. Now the blood is being applied in the name of Jesus, all bondage and chains be loosed in the name of Jesus, For it is written, For the truth shall set you free, your name Jesus is name above all other names, Your name is all in one. You have promised to protect your children, you have not seen your own forsaken or begging for bread. i pray in the name of Jesus Christ
AMEN
Try this prayer.
If you believe in your heart, it will slowly change you in a way that will run the doctors away.
I hope this helps out in great detail.
well maybe instead of asking people you dont even no
you should ask ur psychiatrist
for some adivice
and dont let drugs or alcohol get into ur life
other wise it might be to late
hope u get ur life back on track
xox
get help for the drug addiction
many college students feel the same way as you, they just might not openly admit it.
Hey..
I see u seem to be struggling to find what's ur purpose in life. Like, life is so empty, no fun, boring and etc. And that's why u turn into drugs and alcohol to give u the ';high'; and the adrenaline in ur blood running. But there is more than this in life. :)
Spend more of ur time doing something more fulflling or fun. Take up yoga or some exercise. This will make u sweat and releases stress and tension.
Talk to a close friend and relative.Tell someone u trust and ask them to help u and guide u. And u can even have posters or reminders pasted on ur wall saying.. ';Stop the drugs! Or u'll regret it!'; or whatever that would sorta impact you.
It's good that u take the initiative to ask for help here..but after we've given our advice..it is all UP to YOU.. to do it. You either DO it or SCREW it.
Your life is hanging on a thin thread. So you gotta make a good decision.
ALL THE BEST AND TAKE CARE! BE STRONG!
(and know that God's always with you.)
ps - i'm not trying to be religious or something..but it's this faith i've hold unto that keeps me alive. sorry if u're a non religious personI need life advice, please help?
You're going to need to give up the drugs and alchohol and have a talk to your professors about your academic performance issues. But, before you do go have a talk to a cousellor. In Australia university students usually have access to a range of mental health services. They are often free or available to students at a minimal cost. See if your college offers something similar and make an appointment to see them. Thats your first step to fixing your problems.
I read this once Watch your thoughts they become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character defines your Destiny. the drugs and alcohol will impair your true self you are feeling the loss feeling like that because you are denying your true heart and soul desire that will fulfill your existence Stop all the negative habits and you will regain a positive disposition to life Good luck Ask for help school counsellor or exterior support
Kneel down, Have a heart to heart talk with Jesus Christ. He will deliver you from the alcohol and drugs. He has set many captives free. He set me free from verbally abusing people. He has set me free from the downfall of sanity. Here you go, try this:
Father in heaven, I know you hear me crying out, I cannot take anymore of the bad deeds being done to my body. I know in my conscience that the body is a temple of the holy spirit. I need you more than ever to fill me with love, compassion, and a sound mind. I am in need of spiritual wisdom. I know your ways are higher than my ways. Your thoughts are higher than my thoughts. I plead the blood you shed at calvery to attone for my sins. Now the blood is being applied in the name of Jesus, all bondage and chains be loosed in the name of Jesus, For it is written, For the truth shall set you free, your name Jesus is name above all other names, Your name is all in one. You have promised to protect your children, you have not seen your own forsaken or begging for bread. i pray in the name of Jesus Christ
AMEN
Try this prayer.
If you believe in your heart, it will slowly change you in a way that will run the doctors away.
I hope this helps out in great detail.
well maybe instead of asking people you dont even no
you should ask ur psychiatrist
for some adivice
and dont let drugs or alcohol get into ur life
other wise it might be to late
hope u get ur life back on track
xox
get help for the drug addiction
many college students feel the same way as you, they just might not openly admit it.
I'm a college grad and I make dirt cheap salary. This is not how I imagined life after college. Advice?
What the heck? I thought as a college grad, you have a better life and salary. My salary is phoeeeeee, spare change! How do I make more?I'm a college grad and I make dirt cheap salary. This is not how I imagined life after college. Advice?
Sorry dude, this happens to almost every college grad. You still gotta start at the bottom and work your way up - but the college degree makes sure you're pushing paper instead of pushing a mop.
ive it a few years until you build a little experience, and think of this time as paid ';education'; in the way a business is really run. Instead of working with theories in books, you're working with realities in the workplace.
Don't worry, in the long run, that degree will pay off. Once you have a little experience and have had a chance to put your learning into practice, you'll be able to move into a better job and a better salary.I'm a college grad and I make dirt cheap salary. This is not how I imagined life after college. Advice?
go to www.myherbalife.com or www.herbalife.com
if you have questions write me rrpalvarez@gmail.com
Yep, welcome to the real world. You do have a better life than if you only had a high school education and no skills.... thing is, the kids you went to high school with that didn't go to college have now been working and developing skills for the past 4 years. So you're probably about on par with them now.
Any idiot can get a college degree anymore. Suck it up and keep slugging away. You'll get raises, and after you've built up some experience, maybe you can jump to another job/ company for more money.
could be the economy in the area you live in, you might have to move to a different city to make more. Or you might have to change occupations altogether. You might have to prove yourself for a while at your current job and get promoted. I know college grads working for minimum wage, so all grads don't make the big bucks.
Have you thought of what you are really good at? Do you know how you can make a difference in the world? Try reading the book, ';What Color is your Parachute'; by Bolles. It has made a difference in my life.
um...get a new job?
Sorry dude, this happens to almost every college grad. You still gotta start at the bottom and work your way up - but the college degree makes sure you're pushing paper instead of pushing a mop.
ive it a few years until you build a little experience, and think of this time as paid ';education'; in the way a business is really run. Instead of working with theories in books, you're working with realities in the workplace.
Don't worry, in the long run, that degree will pay off. Once you have a little experience and have had a chance to put your learning into practice, you'll be able to move into a better job and a better salary.I'm a college grad and I make dirt cheap salary. This is not how I imagined life after college. Advice?
go to www.myherbalife.com or www.herbalife.com
if you have questions write me rrpalvarez@gmail.com
Yep, welcome to the real world. You do have a better life than if you only had a high school education and no skills.... thing is, the kids you went to high school with that didn't go to college have now been working and developing skills for the past 4 years. So you're probably about on par with them now.
Any idiot can get a college degree anymore. Suck it up and keep slugging away. You'll get raises, and after you've built up some experience, maybe you can jump to another job/ company for more money.
could be the economy in the area you live in, you might have to move to a different city to make more. Or you might have to change occupations altogether. You might have to prove yourself for a while at your current job and get promoted. I know college grads working for minimum wage, so all grads don't make the big bucks.
Have you thought of what you are really good at? Do you know how you can make a difference in the world? Try reading the book, ';What Color is your Parachute'; by Bolles. It has made a difference in my life.
um...get a new job?
I need advice on being more organised in all aspects of my life?
i am so unorganised, i think a lot of it is down to being lazy to be honest! everything is a mess, nothing is in its right place so i lose important things and then get stressed when i need to find them! when it comes to cooking, cleaning, washing drying clothes, keepin things tidy, college, money, bills, getting up in the morning and going to bed on time, everything is always so unorganised and chaotic! any advice welcome!I need advice on being more organised in all aspects of my life?
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I need advice : How to completely eradicate masturbation practice from day to day life?
its really make me to addict.after working with that i feel bad of me..my heart feel that i am not good in nature..sometimes it makes me think that iam in wrong way..even thought i can understand its a bad one sometimes i cant control myself...will u please provide me a right suggestion to save my life from this masturbation habbit..................................…I need advice : How to completely eradicate masturbation practice from day to day life?
Troll alarm ! This question was already posted in another section by another guy: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApGHjpyC6m_Ph.ol3Z.AK_Pty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090605233143AA732T6%26amp;show=7#profile-info-L12DAyLVaaI need advice : How to completely eradicate masturbation practice from day to day life?
Tightly wrap a rubberband around the base of your scrotum. Leave it there until you no longer have the urge to relieve yourself.
Masturbation is just normal..
Just HOW does this relate to TRAVEL????
If I travel to the Philippines, am I expected to....?cartridge
Troll alarm ! This question was already posted in another section by another guy: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApGHjpyC6m_Ph.ol3Z.AK_Pty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090605233143AA732T6%26amp;show=7#profile-info-L12DAyLVaaI need advice : How to completely eradicate masturbation practice from day to day life?
Tightly wrap a rubberband around the base of your scrotum. Leave it there until you no longer have the urge to relieve yourself.
Masturbation is just normal..
Just HOW does this relate to TRAVEL????
If I travel to the Philippines, am I expected to....?
What is the best finanial advice to give someone who is just starting out in life?
Hands down, get credit, but pay off your bill every month!!!!! Credit cards are absolutely the biggest trap in the world. PAY THEM OFF! PAY THEM OFF! PAY THEM OFF! PAY THEM OFF! Also, if you have the funds real estate is the way to go. That is a debt that will eventually be worth something.
Good Luck:)What is the best finanial advice to give someone who is just starting out in life?
the best advice is to look for cheapest loan availableWhat is the best finanial advice to give someone who is just starting out in life?
To keep your finances secure ...you got to stick to a budget, save, invest and most of all discipline. You can get great guidance at oprah.com or visit this web for a good investment http://www.website.ws/zaiyan
Avoid credit card debt as much as possible.
Instant gratification is one thing, but do you still want to be paying for a steak you ate 6 months ago?
Plan and decide your financial future for yourself, You can start with some insurance, higher return investments when you can afford (do your homework though). At any stage, never trust your financials to anyone other than yourself, especially your so called ';insurance agents'; or ';financial advisors';.
Spend as little as possible. Be modest. No frills. You will have the opportunity for all that later.
Save up your money before you buy. Do not use bank for borrowing money. Get a job %26amp; keep it,unless a betterpaying job with good Health Ins. come along.
Alway pay cash for everything. Use bank for the highest interest rate. Stay On Top . Better to go without for a min. then to pay double , because you want it now.
stay away from credit cards, but if they do use them make sure the spending limit is way low like 300.00 or 500.00. and encourage them to pay off that amount each month. and also encourage them to get used to putting a percentage of their check directly into savings. if they begin doing this at a young age they will hopefully continue doing it and consider it a must and part of the monthly expenses instead of something to do if they have the extra money. also teach them to save for big ticket items that are not essential to daily living instead of going into debt for them. encourage them to sit down every month to look at their monthly budget to see if they are wasting money in certain areas.
DON'T BLOW ALL YOUR MONEY AT THE STRIP CLUB!!!
spend a little on yourself and save the rest for a rainy day.
Save money. Try to avoid debt. BE careful in your investments
Good Luck:)What is the best finanial advice to give someone who is just starting out in life?
the best advice is to look for cheapest loan availableWhat is the best finanial advice to give someone who is just starting out in life?
To keep your finances secure ...you got to stick to a budget, save, invest and most of all discipline. You can get great guidance at oprah.com or visit this web for a good investment http://www.website.ws/zaiyan
Avoid credit card debt as much as possible.
Instant gratification is one thing, but do you still want to be paying for a steak you ate 6 months ago?
Plan and decide your financial future for yourself, You can start with some insurance, higher return investments when you can afford (do your homework though). At any stage, never trust your financials to anyone other than yourself, especially your so called ';insurance agents'; or ';financial advisors';.
Spend as little as possible. Be modest. No frills. You will have the opportunity for all that later.
Save up your money before you buy. Do not use bank for borrowing money. Get a job %26amp; keep it,unless a betterpaying job with good Health Ins. come along.
Alway pay cash for everything. Use bank for the highest interest rate. Stay On Top . Better to go without for a min. then to pay double , because you want it now.
stay away from credit cards, but if they do use them make sure the spending limit is way low like 300.00 or 500.00. and encourage them to pay off that amount each month. and also encourage them to get used to putting a percentage of their check directly into savings. if they begin doing this at a young age they will hopefully continue doing it and consider it a must and part of the monthly expenses instead of something to do if they have the extra money. also teach them to save for big ticket items that are not essential to daily living instead of going into debt for them. encourage them to sit down every month to look at their monthly budget to see if they are wasting money in certain areas.
DON'T BLOW ALL YOUR MONEY AT THE STRIP CLUB!!!
spend a little on yourself and save the rest for a rainy day.
Save money. Try to avoid debt. BE careful in your investments
I am gonna graduate next year. and i have no idea what i want to do with my life! I need your advice?
I am into filiming, producing, editing videos, but there sooo much people who wants to be a producer or director and i feel that i wont be successful.I am gonna graduate next year. and i have no idea what i want to do with my life! I need your advice?
Trust me you'll have succes when you believe that you will have
Take this advice it is very very useful.
Anyone help me on this:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I am gonna graduate next year. and i have no idea what i want to do with my life! I need your advice?
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Trust me you'll have succes when you believe that you will have
Take this advice it is very very useful.
Anyone help me on this:http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>I am gonna graduate next year. and i have no idea what i want to do with my life! I need your advice?
Vb tutorials-http://learnvb.info/
What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
Look at the moon a lot.
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Don't forget anything important.What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
I heard something along these lines in a sermon a little while ago:
Assume that other people are in serious trouble, and you'll be right more than half the time.
It's always good to remember that other people may have factors that are causing them to interact with you the way they do.
I'd rather not give my age on Yahoo! Answers.
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Don't forget anything important.What is some advice to use through life and how old are you?
I heard something along these lines in a sermon a little while ago:
Assume that other people are in serious trouble, and you'll be right more than half the time.
It's always good to remember that other people may have factors that are causing them to interact with you the way they do.
I'd rather not give my age on Yahoo! Answers.
Can you offer me some good life advice?
The advice can be on anything.Can you offer me some good life advice?
stay in school and get degree
have faith in Christ
be all you can be in life (good)
love your parents
love yourself
don't let anything or anybody control you stay in control of youCan you offer me some good life advice?
always be happy..whatever the situation maybe...and that if u surrender everyhting to God u will have a life full of happiness...
Don't eat yellow snow=typical response.
Seek out happiness, don't wait %26amp; wait for it to just fall into your lap, because it usually won't.
Pick your company carefully.
Be nice to your mom and show her love.
Prove someone wrong that thinks ill of you.
Prioritize your needs first, your wants next.
Think about the results or consequences first before you do or say anything.
Remember that your true character shows by what you do when no one is looking.
Sure.
Never fart in the Dead Sea. Your butthole will burn.
Also never piss in the Dead Sea either. Your penis will burn as well.
If you burn your finger on something hot or get a bee sting, honey will take away the pain. And I don't mean eating the honey, actually putting the honey on the sore spot.
go as far as you can see and when you reach there you'll see further.
smile as smile is the shortest distance between two people
you dont eat, you dont ****, you dont ****, you die.
always think before you speak.
stay in school and get degree
have faith in Christ
be all you can be in life (good)
love your parents
love yourself
don't let anything or anybody control you stay in control of youCan you offer me some good life advice?
always be happy..whatever the situation maybe...and that if u surrender everyhting to God u will have a life full of happiness...
Don't eat yellow snow=typical response.
Seek out happiness, don't wait %26amp; wait for it to just fall into your lap, because it usually won't.
Pick your company carefully.
Be nice to your mom and show her love.
Prove someone wrong that thinks ill of you.
Prioritize your needs first, your wants next.
Think about the results or consequences first before you do or say anything.
Remember that your true character shows by what you do when no one is looking.
Sure.
Never fart in the Dead Sea. Your butthole will burn.
Also never piss in the Dead Sea either. Your penis will burn as well.
If you burn your finger on something hot or get a bee sting, honey will take away the pain. And I don't mean eating the honey, actually putting the honey on the sore spot.
go as far as you can see and when you reach there you'll see further.
smile as smile is the shortest distance between two people
you dont eat, you dont ****, you dont ****, you die.
always think before you speak.
How can I be more happy with life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am a happy person. However, I think I am very burnt out and lack of energy.
I really want to focus on the inner (happy from the insides). Althought, it is tough when you have to get up at 5.AM-Work until 5PM-Go to school until 10PM-Go to bed at midnight.
You constantly have to worry about money. You have exams to study etc.
How do I keep myself saint and happy?
Thank youHow can I be more happy with life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hmm thats quite a hectic schedule... somewhere in there (day off or something) do yoga. U can just do it inside your house, nothing fancy, just do stretches. You'd be surprised at how much more relaxed you will feel. Go for awalk if you have time, and fit some time in there to just veg out infront of the tv and hang out for a day. Good luck to you =)How can I be more happy with life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Begin every day with prayer. End every day with prayer.
I'm not talking about say the same thing every time. Say what you feel - pour your heart out to God and be willing to do what He answers through His Spirit.
You will be surprised at the difference.
I can totally relate to what you are going through. I work 12 hours and go to school as well. Sometimes it feels like there are not enough hours in a day. Sometimes I feel like I have no time for me. The one thing I try to do everday is spend an hour for just me. I try to keep the mindset that I wont be in school forever and the outcome will be that I will have a degree. If you have time on the weekends, go for a walk, do yoga, deep breathing exercises, guided imagery(has really helped me). I know how hard it is to remain sane at a time like this, but the outcome is worth the struggle.
Adopt an ';attitude of Gratitude';. Try to notice and recognize all the little joys that life offers. See some pretty flowers or a sunset? whisper a ';thank you for such beauty';... enjoying a sweet treat? ';thank you for yummy things like cake (or whatever it is)....Did a friend come to your aid when you really needed help? ';thank you for good friends';. When we take the time to really ';count our blessings'; we understand and appreciate just how many things we have to make our lives wonderful. The ';thank you's'; don't have to be prayers to God, exactly. They can be to whatever is there in your beliefs.
Only God can help you through this. You have to look at the big picture. This time that you are going through is only a fraction of your entire life. There will be better days to come. You are obviously devoted to what you are doing otherwise you wouldn't be doing it. Exercise a few days a week to let out aggression and purge and loosen up the body, Take 15 to 20 minutes a day, find a comfortable place to sit, relax, and reflect. Think about your goals and dreams. How and when you will be there. And last but not least, don't give up.
By focusing ONLY on what truly makes you happy. Happiness is something you create... Make yourself some today! This is a lesson I've learned myself recently. Stop sweating the small stuff, or the things that you can deal with from day to day.
Sounds like your burning the candle at both ends!! Prayer and meditation will do wonders and try to slow up a bit, we got a whole life time!!
You have to see youself in others, and realize that we all are more alike than we are different. And don't sweat the small stuff. And lastly, realize that God is in control !
i would face my fears because you would feel relived doing and it might be fun. or you could do something daring and outgoing like sky diving or bungee jumping.
buy prostitute and so she doesn't leave in the middle of the night drink lots of caffeine.
For me, one of the things that never fails to cheer me up is my music. Turn on something you enjoy and just close your eyes and relax. Whenever im feeling down, music and my best friends are the only things that can make me smile. Good Luck!
just enjoy doing things u ';need'; to do, learn to love it and u will be happy.simple and healthy
Try to act in a way that gains most people. Think before you make decisions in other words. What can I do to make other people happy as well as I am happy myself? Try to make decisions that will make the world a better place to live, and think of what decisions that will do so. When you start doing this, I believe you will feel happy about contributing and doing your best for a better world.
If everyone's goal was to make our life's as best as possible, I think we would have a great world.
It depends on what kind of happyness you are looking for. If money makes you happy keep working yourself to the bone until you get out of college then you will still be working full time with a degree of sorts.
If smelling the roses makes you happy, change jobs to a part time job, and take more student loans out to help subsidize the spending.
Find ways to cut spending so that you dont feel the stress of having to work, your never home so a cable bill is pointless.
However, if you are looking for spiritiual happiness then you will need to find a religion and church you are comfortable with. My church spends a lot of time encouraging Small group (2-3) communication, mid size (8-15) and large sermons (50+) groups. The happest time you will have is when your around people who care for you. And the best way to releave stress is by exercising, or talking about the things that stress you out the most.
Good luck, hopefully your degree is almost done.
I know things are tough right now, and it seems like you are always running. You really are doing that but it is to better yourself. I am sure that you are going to school so you can get a better job so you don't have to do all of the running you will be able to slow down a bit. I guess the best advice I can give you is to remember to take a little time out for yourself and throw something fun in there. I have always been told that life isn't always about work. You have to do some fun things to keep yourself sane. I have money problems as well. Heck, with the gas prices the way they are, I don't know who isn't having money trouble. But the fact remains that we still need to find it in ourselves to havee fun. Even if you don't spend money while you are out, you could go for a walk, go to the park, or for me, my mom is very sick, and I find it refreshing just to go and see her. Please just get out and do something. I hope this has helped you a bit. Keep your chin up. Better days are ahead for you!!!
Yoga or any kind of exercise that you can fit in is a huge start. I feel gross emotionally if I don't do something that gets me outside and away from daily nuisances and crappy life stuff. Also, reward your hard work during the week with a day for yourself or with friends. Do nothing work or school related... just do what you like to do! Church helps some people or a group where you can get out and focus on something other than the daily grind. You deserve the time for yourself... take it! You'll feel much better. ;)
when u have time to take a vacation, go to a place where help is needed:south america, some island of the caribbean, anywhere.
daily life:
1. take yoga classes-yoga is very relaxing always makes me happy 1 hour 2 days a week- take the class a sunday it makes mondays easier.
2.walk your dog (if u dont have a dog take a walk by yourself!) if u dont have time to walk, make time! 1/2 an hour of walking at least 3 times a week will make u happy and healthier. if u do good things for your body it wiil make u feel good and happy.
3. get a hobby- photography, painting, anything even creating a facebook or myspace website can make u happy(u get to catch on to old friends and family without the need of traveling)
Even though you are very busy, the best medicine is to do something for someone else.
Figure out what is an acceptable work load and say I have done enough today. We all need recharge time. If you continue this pace burn out is in your future.
For your own sake, I wish you didn't have so much on your plate!! I have found some ';secrets'; along the way! One is to simplify your life, and another is to be calm in all situations. You can remind yourself this is only for the time being. This is not the rest of your life situation. I give you lots of credit for being so responsible, and remember school won't last forever. The payoff will be nice....but for the future, remember to keep it simple...
Try to enjoy what you do, look forward to the money and find positive ways of managing it. See school as an opportunity to expand the mind and your chances at life. Set your schedule as a habit and let it become your lifestyle.cartridge
I really want to focus on the inner (happy from the insides). Althought, it is tough when you have to get up at 5.AM-Work until 5PM-Go to school until 10PM-Go to bed at midnight.
You constantly have to worry about money. You have exams to study etc.
How do I keep myself saint and happy?
Thank youHow can I be more happy with life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hmm thats quite a hectic schedule... somewhere in there (day off or something) do yoga. U can just do it inside your house, nothing fancy, just do stretches. You'd be surprised at how much more relaxed you will feel. Go for awalk if you have time, and fit some time in there to just veg out infront of the tv and hang out for a day. Good luck to you =)How can I be more happy with life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Begin every day with prayer. End every day with prayer.
I'm not talking about say the same thing every time. Say what you feel - pour your heart out to God and be willing to do what He answers through His Spirit.
You will be surprised at the difference.
I can totally relate to what you are going through. I work 12 hours and go to school as well. Sometimes it feels like there are not enough hours in a day. Sometimes I feel like I have no time for me. The one thing I try to do everday is spend an hour for just me. I try to keep the mindset that I wont be in school forever and the outcome will be that I will have a degree. If you have time on the weekends, go for a walk, do yoga, deep breathing exercises, guided imagery(has really helped me). I know how hard it is to remain sane at a time like this, but the outcome is worth the struggle.
Adopt an ';attitude of Gratitude';. Try to notice and recognize all the little joys that life offers. See some pretty flowers or a sunset? whisper a ';thank you for such beauty';... enjoying a sweet treat? ';thank you for yummy things like cake (or whatever it is)....Did a friend come to your aid when you really needed help? ';thank you for good friends';. When we take the time to really ';count our blessings'; we understand and appreciate just how many things we have to make our lives wonderful. The ';thank you's'; don't have to be prayers to God, exactly. They can be to whatever is there in your beliefs.
Only God can help you through this. You have to look at the big picture. This time that you are going through is only a fraction of your entire life. There will be better days to come. You are obviously devoted to what you are doing otherwise you wouldn't be doing it. Exercise a few days a week to let out aggression and purge and loosen up the body, Take 15 to 20 minutes a day, find a comfortable place to sit, relax, and reflect. Think about your goals and dreams. How and when you will be there. And last but not least, don't give up.
By focusing ONLY on what truly makes you happy. Happiness is something you create... Make yourself some today! This is a lesson I've learned myself recently. Stop sweating the small stuff, or the things that you can deal with from day to day.
Sounds like your burning the candle at both ends!! Prayer and meditation will do wonders and try to slow up a bit, we got a whole life time!!
You have to see youself in others, and realize that we all are more alike than we are different. And don't sweat the small stuff. And lastly, realize that God is in control !
i would face my fears because you would feel relived doing and it might be fun. or you could do something daring and outgoing like sky diving or bungee jumping.
buy prostitute and so she doesn't leave in the middle of the night drink lots of caffeine.
For me, one of the things that never fails to cheer me up is my music. Turn on something you enjoy and just close your eyes and relax. Whenever im feeling down, music and my best friends are the only things that can make me smile. Good Luck!
just enjoy doing things u ';need'; to do, learn to love it and u will be happy.simple and healthy
Try to act in a way that gains most people. Think before you make decisions in other words. What can I do to make other people happy as well as I am happy myself? Try to make decisions that will make the world a better place to live, and think of what decisions that will do so. When you start doing this, I believe you will feel happy about contributing and doing your best for a better world.
If everyone's goal was to make our life's as best as possible, I think we would have a great world.
It depends on what kind of happyness you are looking for. If money makes you happy keep working yourself to the bone until you get out of college then you will still be working full time with a degree of sorts.
If smelling the roses makes you happy, change jobs to a part time job, and take more student loans out to help subsidize the spending.
Find ways to cut spending so that you dont feel the stress of having to work, your never home so a cable bill is pointless.
However, if you are looking for spiritiual happiness then you will need to find a religion and church you are comfortable with. My church spends a lot of time encouraging Small group (2-3) communication, mid size (8-15) and large sermons (50+) groups. The happest time you will have is when your around people who care for you. And the best way to releave stress is by exercising, or talking about the things that stress you out the most.
Good luck, hopefully your degree is almost done.
I know things are tough right now, and it seems like you are always running. You really are doing that but it is to better yourself. I am sure that you are going to school so you can get a better job so you don't have to do all of the running you will be able to slow down a bit. I guess the best advice I can give you is to remember to take a little time out for yourself and throw something fun in there. I have always been told that life isn't always about work. You have to do some fun things to keep yourself sane. I have money problems as well. Heck, with the gas prices the way they are, I don't know who isn't having money trouble. But the fact remains that we still need to find it in ourselves to havee fun. Even if you don't spend money while you are out, you could go for a walk, go to the park, or for me, my mom is very sick, and I find it refreshing just to go and see her. Please just get out and do something. I hope this has helped you a bit. Keep your chin up. Better days are ahead for you!!!
Yoga or any kind of exercise that you can fit in is a huge start. I feel gross emotionally if I don't do something that gets me outside and away from daily nuisances and crappy life stuff. Also, reward your hard work during the week with a day for yourself or with friends. Do nothing work or school related... just do what you like to do! Church helps some people or a group where you can get out and focus on something other than the daily grind. You deserve the time for yourself... take it! You'll feel much better. ;)
when u have time to take a vacation, go to a place where help is needed:south america, some island of the caribbean, anywhere.
daily life:
1. take yoga classes-yoga is very relaxing always makes me happy 1 hour 2 days a week- take the class a sunday it makes mondays easier.
2.walk your dog (if u dont have a dog take a walk by yourself!) if u dont have time to walk, make time! 1/2 an hour of walking at least 3 times a week will make u happy and healthier. if u do good things for your body it wiil make u feel good and happy.
3. get a hobby- photography, painting, anything even creating a facebook or myspace website can make u happy(u get to catch on to old friends and family without the need of traveling)
Even though you are very busy, the best medicine is to do something for someone else.
Figure out what is an acceptable work load and say I have done enough today. We all need recharge time. If you continue this pace burn out is in your future.
For your own sake, I wish you didn't have so much on your plate!! I have found some ';secrets'; along the way! One is to simplify your life, and another is to be calm in all situations. You can remind yourself this is only for the time being. This is not the rest of your life situation. I give you lots of credit for being so responsible, and remember school won't last forever. The payoff will be nice....but for the future, remember to keep it simple...
Try to enjoy what you do, look forward to the money and find positive ways of managing it. See school as an opportunity to expand the mind and your chances at life. Set your schedule as a habit and let it become your lifestyle.
What kind of advice to give a 15 year old boy about life?
My baby cousin is about 8 months old and my sunt asked our family to write letters to him that he could open any time in his life we choose. i want him to open mine when he is 15, just entering high school, and all that. I am 16 now,( and a girL) so i thought that i could give some pretty good advice. any ideas for what to say would be greatly appreciated!! thanks:)What kind of advice to give a 15 year old boy about life?
Tell him or her not to expect too much from ppl. Work very hard for what he or she wants. And if they need any advice they can always come to you in time of needWhat kind of advice to give a 15 year old boy about life?
tell him how life is now how a lot of people are out of work people are losing there homes left and right. Tell to stay in school and go collage and get into the medical field Tell him he has dimples just to mess with him see if he turn red as a joke
You said you could give good advice, but then you ask for ideas... what is your idea of good advice? Write that. Talk about getting good grades in school and not getting on the internet.
Tell him or her not to expect too much from ppl. Work very hard for what he or she wants. And if they need any advice they can always come to you in time of needWhat kind of advice to give a 15 year old boy about life?
tell him how life is now how a lot of people are out of work people are losing there homes left and right. Tell to stay in school and go collage and get into the medical field Tell him he has dimples just to mess with him see if he turn red as a joke
You said you could give good advice, but then you ask for ideas... what is your idea of good advice? Write that. Talk about getting good grades in school and not getting on the internet.
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