Advice pretty please how did you figure out with you want in life?

Some people know without a doubt almost every aspect of what they want and don't want. Right now I'm confused. I don't know what career I want a 100%. I'm not even sure if I'm looking for a serious relationship, but the person I'm with does want a serious commitment. What to do please help.Advice pretty please how did you figure out with you want in life?
I've figured out what I want mostly through experimentation. You have to be willing to try different things and see what works.Advice pretty please how did you figure out with you want in life?
you should always focus on education before thinking about a relationship so set aside the though about having a relationship for a while until you are set.


so first,


-make a list of everything that you like and dont like.


-take some time off and travel. (some people come to realizations when they start to see the outside world) go preferably out of the country


-job shadow some people and get to know the different careers and see what is appealing to you.


-make a list of what you are good at and not good at and narrow you selection based off of it.


-become part of a religion and follow it. (many people dont realize this, but following a religion can help you straighten out your morals and give you guidance and support, and give you some fundamentals for your personality.)


-try meditation. meditation can help you focus on yourself and your mind and will give you a sense of happiness.


-become a good person. be helpful to others and try to be righteous.


-DONT EVER DO DRUGS. many people resort to drugs when they are confused and it can make your life turn out much worse than you'd hoped.





im sure you will be fine. everyone goes through this phase in life, but it is important that you make it through well.
Take the time to evaluate yourself; make a list of the pros and cons of what you want. Once you have a worksheet you can then determine how to go about getting where you want to be. Remember that our desires and goals change through the years. Yes, many people do know what they want right out of school but even they have times when the question if they made the right choice. Life isn't one straight line, with careers or with relationships. If you're not ready to make a commitment, then don't. There's nothing wrong with saying that you're not ready. To make a commitment to someone when you aren't 100 percent sure is lying to him and to yourself. That isn't fair to either one of you.
I feel the same way about the carreer thing...





Just think about the favourite things that you like to do..





As in for right now im still in High school I graduate in 2 years (sophmore) n dont know what i want to do with my life so im suggesting joining the Navy-military so i wont waste my time..





hope i helpedd. :-)
If your under 18...it's ok. if your over... it's ok but once u get older it's gonna be a concern. You figure it out by thinking what u like to do.


Say if u like animals and taking care of them, a vet is deff. a good choice and u would go to school for that.
not so sure if i understand but i think so? anyways lol, tie down a career first, then relationships, you don't want to be unemployed with a marriage and kids on the way (that's a lot of money you probably wont have)