Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Im getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?

IM getting kinda bored with my life. Same ol job, school, and gf. Shes great and i want to keep her around. But in my spare time i just get really bored. i have plenty of friends but we always just do the same thing. i just want some excitement. im already pretty active, i just need something new. any help is very appreciatedIm getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
Move out of your, town, city, country; this way you'll learn why it is that other people never get bored. it sounds to me like you have lived in the same place too long, either that or your resources are limited.Im getting bored with my life.. Any advice or help full input?
Try to do something like get your hair cut or by something. You can also just try a hobby. That's what I do when I get bored.
It sounds like you're looking for happiness from external sources only.





The problem with that is happiness, on that route, will always be temporary. Because you're only allowing yourself to be happy when something external happens.





Step back and think about that.





You allow yourself to be happy. Its all inside you. It sounds corny, but its as true as anything.





You are the source of your own happiness.





But you need to convince yourself that you deserve it. Tell yourself that you deserve to be happy. When your brain asks 'why', tell yourself that its because you suffer from being human. We all suffer as humans, so we all deserve to be happy. But we never deserve to suffer. We just do suffer.





Remember.....


people and things external can be really cool, but will only allow you temporary happiness. That is why you're bored.


Lasting happiness is inside, because that's where your feelings generate. That's the source.





It really is that easy.





When you realize that, you will not be bored.
try reading volunteer some where take a class(dancing) or move to another state or city that always works for me
I am getting bored just reading your question.


You are all about you and your pleasure. You are too small.


Life will not get more interesting until you get beyond yourself and start contributing to something larger than yourself. You stand at the brink of maturity and say 'nope, I'm more important than anything else I see.'


Your life will begin when you get beyond yourself.
do something for the world instead of complaining, help the poor and hungry children, dont you think they are bored being in such a situation too??





or ultimately become a clown

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