Im 35 years old and I havent done anything with my life yet, advice anyone ?

I have a problem in being to undecisive , because I dont know what I really would like to do in life or even study (that if im not to old already to study); how can I find out what I really like to do for a living in life, I have too much doubts in if that will work or not , or is it or not worth it to follow that path and then im wrong etc, how can i find out in what I should REALLY make a living at , avoiding as much as possible, future regrets of making wrong choices.Im 35 years old and I havent done anything with my life yet, advice anyone ?
So are you a wanderer or a professional student?


Look, its like this, I knew someone like you many many years ago. He was a professional batchelor, Harley Rider, very professional in his job but couldn't figure out what exactly he wanted in life and BTW he happened to be an Atheist. He was the 35 year old son of my Grandmother's real estate partner and she and ';Reggie'; lived in her house and his father had faded out years earlier. I challenged him and said: ';You convert to Christianity and I'll ride that bike you want me to, otherwise, no way am I getting on a bike with an Atheist!'; I was 15.





Moral of the story, find God, pick a subject you half way enjoy and go for it. If you already know God, you've licked half the battle. Now, just ask him to ';point me in the direction you wish me to go God'; and it may come in the fashion of walking into a grocery store one day, striking up a conversation with someone, they hand you a business card and your whole life could begin to change! Or it could simply be the next person He puts in your path and wants you to help that individual. Could come from a Drs visit, dental visit. You just never know. But I do know that if you sincerely ask Him ';God, I've wandered so long in life, please show me the way you wish my life to go.'; He will. God bless and God speed!


It works, trust in Him. You've got to have faith! Trust Him and have faith! It will work but you also have to have patience. Rome wasn't built in a day. Try it!





AND, BTW, if He does happen to put a loving kind person of the opposite sex in your path, remember this, they might be the answer to your prayers and just always keep an open mind and be positive. Push those negative thoughts and paranoid thoughts out of your head. Life changes can come in many forms. I could give you many more examples, even the one about my Sweet southern Sunday School teacher Grandmother who met my wild Granddaddy smoker, drinker and carouser from Texas, married him, and they taught Sunday School at the same church where he eventually became a Deacon for over 40 years!Im 35 years old and I havent done anything with my life yet, advice anyone ?
I am also 35, and feel the same way. I got married at 18, worked and raised my 4 children. Now that I have some free time in my hands, I plan on going back to school. I'd like to get into a career, that would not only give me a great income to help my children through college, but would also give me great inner satisfaction in helping others. At this point in my life, I feel that if I could accomplish all my goals, by the time I'm 40...Then I will absolutely achieve happpiness...It's never too late for anything, you just really have to believe in yourself and work hard. No one is perfect and we all make mistakes. Good luck.
First of all no one is too old to do anything. You can do what ever it is you choose to as long as your willing to do it. Age is a myth.





Secondly, it takes time and maturity to really understand what it is that one truly wants.





Third, who are you deep down inside, because you need to deal with your insecurities before you can find your nit-ch





fourth, your indecisive because you lack confidence in your abilities to be the best human being that you can be





fifth, live by your own standards, not societies standard





six, money, a degree, a big career does not define who you are as a human being, it just keep the roof on top of your head.





seven, when you learn to appreciate the life that you are living ,you tend to want to share with the world and there you will find what it is that you really want to do
get moving now. what are you waiting for? an invitation.
mid life crises? too late to start now, keep doing what you're best at, nothing
my mum used to say ';you are never to old to learn'; by the way you are only young yet. you will never know until you try, so get started, ask for advice, there is always something out there for everyone, you just have to have the ';get up and go attitude.'; good luck
Matt,


I'm 33 and pretty much in the same boat. First off, It's never to late to learn and we can't go through life regretting the past. That in its self is difficult not to do. I had a rough up bringing and tend to hold on to that and use that as an excuse. I'm still very angry and feel so deprived of a normal healthy up bringing. I know that I'm not the only one that had a rough childhood. But, I'm only responsible for me. I'm meeting with a career counselor soon to assist me hopefully, financially and with career decisions. I work in health care and have for 13 yrs but do not have a formal education and a nursing degree which makes if difficult if not impossible to make good money in health care.my email is cmdmoore at yahoo. Please e mail me and I will give you info on the persons that I'm meeting with. They may be helpful to you. I prefer to do this in private for personal reasons. in subject please add Matt.. yahoo answers.


All the best,


Michelle
well I'm 40,never married...got no women at the moment...pretty fed up there has got to more to life than this...
I graduated with my nursing degree at age 42. Hadn't done a whole lot before that time that I don't consider mistakes at this point. Nursing even kind of looks like a mistake on some days. I think what you're really looking for is just happiness and we don't seem to have it if we can't find something that we feel good about throwing ourselves into. I keep thinking it will hit me someday and I'll just ';know'; where I'm suppose to be. In the mean time I keep reminding myself that life is a journey not a destination. Try doing something new tomorrow; maybe you'll get lucky.
Well, your life story will not succeed, it is meant to be a failure like everyone else.





Accepting this failure and all the garbage along the way is the secret.