Life Advice?!?

Any advice or experience on how to live a good, carefree life? One where you dont care what people think, you do and say what you want to, and make the best of it? i Need some tips.. if that makes any sense!Life Advice?!?
You shouldn't care what other people think,as long as your actions or words harm no one. Say and do what you want,as long as it harms no one. Be good to yourself and those around you. Always respect yourself. Adopt a ';mantra';,ie: ';When life gives you lemons,make lemonade';


Get up in the morning and tell yourself I'll do my best and be my best. Your going to run into alot of walls,potholes and storms in your lifetime..see them through with absolute determination. Smile,commit a random act of kindness. :-)Life Advice?!?
do not think of what could've happened, think of what will happen (dont live in the past)





where there is a will, there is a way





there is no ';i cant';, but only an ';i wont';





people can not hurt you by themselves, only if you give them your consent
You first need to be very confidence about your own self-worth, which is called self-esteem. Not arrogant or preoccupied with yourself.


To not care what people think, you have to care much more about something else or other things. Like if you were a famous artist, making $20,000 per painting, you might not worry about what your neighbors think of you!


I think, though, it is impossible to get to the point that you never care what anyone every thinks about you. You'd probably have to be insane to get to that point. We are, all of us, at least a bit social, and care.


It is also unrealistic to think you can always say what you want, at least and get alone reasonably well in life. Doing that might result in an early death, if you insult someone enough! But,, also, you probably won't be able to keep a job. I once knew a young man like that--he took pride in always speaking his mind. He kept getting fired from jobs and lived with his mother at age 30 (after that I lost contact). Many times it is better not to say anything. Rather than blurt out what your are thinking all the time. That's called Tourette's syndrome--people that can't help thinking outloud. Anyway, why always say what you want? That's basically an immature lack of self-discipline.


For a carefree life, you need money. If you don't have money, how do you plan on eating, clothing yourself, etc? So you need to develop a way of making a living that's comfortable to you. But, again, no one has a carefree life, not even rich people who inherited their fortune and have never had to work a day in their life. Life isn't like that.


So, basically, there are things you can do to move in the directions you want to go. Your aspirations are fairly good, but unrealistic.


P. S. to have a good life, do good and not wrong, and learn to focus less on yourself on more on helping others.